When the man and the woman sincerely love each other, it seems to them that so will be always. But, alas, "nothing is eternal near the Moon!" Very often even lovers with long-term "experience" suddenly feel cooling to each other and understand: it is time to leave. But how it is better to make it? To whom follows on itself an initiative, what loss for words to be? And, above all – how to achieve that parting took place adequately, in a civilized way, without unpleasant scenes, reproaches, scandals?
Instruction
1. Can take the first step to a resolute explanation both the man, and the woman. Fail at all, laying blame for the forthcoming parting on the opposite side, especially you should not suit hysterics and scandals. Do not exaggerate the advantages and do not belittle shortcomings. Even in the most reserved and polite form. It will be and is offensive, and it is unfair: for certain in cooling of the relations both lovers, though are guilty of different degree.
2. Do not feel sorry for the kindest words for the partner or the partner. Surely thank for the love, kindness, dedication shown to you. Assure that in your memory of it the best and warm memoirs how many years passed will remain.
3. By all means specify that the termination of your love relations does not mean at all that you stop communication. Just your meetings will become more reserved, purely friendly, and the partner can always count on your feasible help, council, participation.
4. It is possible to resort to such very reasonable tactics: suggest to leave not forever, and it is temporary, that is for some certain term. It can be very useful in case lovers, though grew cold to each other, after all have doubts: and whether it is worth leaving whether they will make a mistake for which they will regret then? Some "timeout" can bring final clarity in this difficult situation. If after term clearly that the former relations will not manage to be renewed – it is necessary to leave without hesitation. But, certainly, in an amicable way!
5. Well, and if it became clear to the man and the woman that they got excited, hurried, then, perhaps, they will be together again. "From separation the love only becomes stronger!" - this truth is known since ancient times.