Love - the strongest and at the same time very fragile feeling. It is still unknown how it arises also the main thing - what dies of. Therefore it is very important to be able to preserve and support love between two people.
Instruction
1. Love - the best that can happen to the person. But still nobody could answer unambiguously a question as it arises also the main thing - why can disappear. Therefore if you were lucky in love - it is necessary very much to try to keep this feeling for the longest term. To support love, joint desires and efforts of both partners are necessary. It is considered that the strong feeling of love keeps on three ""whales"" - respect, interest and admiration.
2. To keep mutual respect, it is necessary to learn to understand the partner and to put itself on his place. Even if something is not pleasant to you - before being irritated and the more so to throw claims, try ""to try on"" the irritating factor on yourself. For example, work of the doctor are infinite watches and urgent calls for very modest salary. But before reproaching with it, think what sincere qualities the person capable to help people has, without thinking of a reward. Respect the partner for originality of judgments, courage to have and argue own point of view, originality - it means that before you the full-fledged personality.
3. Interest is what the sympathy, and then and love is formed of. The person who once managed to draw your attention obviously could not be the ordinary personality. But to keep and maintain once the arisen interest, it is necessary to work on itself constantly. Learning something new, gaining skills, you change, forcing the partner to look at you a ""new"" look. The only condition - that in couple the mutual interest was retained, both partners have to put efforts on self-improvement.
4. Admiration is a basis of mutual desire. To continue ""to see"" the partner same as in the first days of the relations, you learn not to pay attention to trifles. But at the same time it is necessary to be able to support in darling of aspiration always to look for you perfectly. Do not hesitate to praise its appearance, the bought clothes, a new hairstyle. But at the same time the partner has to be sure that he is loved not only for it, and the spot on a shirt will not become the reason for disappearance of sympathy.