Support is not to listen to once of the person how to it it is bad and not to throw standard "do not worry, everything will be good!". To support – means to be a friend, a reliable support for the loved one. All this has to be felt constantly and be expressed in different ways.
Instruction
1. Always you are respectful to feelings of your relatives. If you see that they feel disappointment, there is a feeling of being lost, let know that you are ready to help and listen at any time. The main thing is to listen carefully to what to you is told by the loved one. If he wants will be uttered to you then he feels trust, and it is necessary to be respectful to it. Having stated everything that at it at heart, it will become much easier for it, and it is pleasant to you that you could support him.
2. Also as support small gifts not occasionally, and just like that can serve. The pleasant surprise will always let know to your friend that it is special.
3. Do not forget to do compliments to the person in the presence of others. Nothing will support better, than pleasant words in its address in the presence of people.
4. If your friend has a difficult moment in life, try to distract him, to switch attention to positive things. To stay at home and grieve – not the best method. It is possible to go to the cinema on the interesting comedy, to organize a party or to descend somewhere to have a rest with old friends.
5. Understand the most important is to understand the person, to sympathize and support is not wipe of tears a scarf, and an active position to improve a situation. Friends will always come to the rescue at a difficult moment. If it is not difficult for you and it is always pleasant, then you the excellent friend on whom it is possible to rely and rely. Do not forget – the true friendship consists not only of ability to worry and sympathize, but also to rejoice heartily for the friend, as for itself. Friendship – human feeling, consisting of mutual understanding and joy of communication.