In the relations of two lovers there are different situations. The romanticism and enthusiasm can smoothly flow in a habit and life. Perhaps, provstrechavshis with each other some time, you understood that near you there is not that person at all. Gradually the thought comes that it is time to leave. And parting in most cases is difficult. How to tell the former beloved that between you everything is over? Follow our instruction.
Instruction
1. Do not delay this unpleasant moment, talk to the former beloved. Such relations will bring only sufferings. Often such way of break in relations when one everything arranges, and another constantly delays the parting moment, call "long-playing". To anything good it, as a rule, does not lead.
2. Tell about parting at once as you will feel that something does not suit you. But know, to your partner from such way of parting it will be heavy, he thought that he at you everything finely and made plans for the future.
3. Disappear for some time if you do not know how to tell the former beloved about parting. Properly consider the decision alone, and then take courage to read it. But do not play and do not vanish forever without any explanations. Such way does not cause respect. The person will wait though some actions of you: letters, phone call, sms. Those who use in such a way sometimes go too far, they change phone numbers, do not respond to letters, some even move to other area if not to other city. And the left person so never also learns the reason why so occurred.
4. Try to leave in the electronic way if there is not enough courage to call or meet, and to tell about parting personally. Send the message to ICQ, to e-mail, write SMS with words: "Let's remain friends", "Forgive, we need to leave".
5. Leave the message to the former beloved on the answering machine. This way, probably, is even worse, than electronic. Such way will not give the chance stopped asking the only question interesting it: "Why?".
6. Ask the friend or the girlfriend to talk to the beloved and to explain to him that between you everything is over. But at first think whether it is worth implicating friends in the personal relations.
7. Ways to leave exists quite a lot, when choosing the best think whether you are ready to break off all relations, or you want to remain after all at least friends. Pay a tribute to the past, hardly you will want to see again acquired enemy acting through the former beloved.