For most of people separation from relatives - the real test. The person begins to feel lonely, thrown, cannot find any peace. The character only developed will help you not to suffer during separation.
1. The suffering most often happens selfishly. So, if offered the close friend good work abroad, you will think rather of how to you without him it will be heavy. And already then you will be glad for your companion. And all because communication became your habit, you got to some kind of dependence on it. Therefore if you want to recover from melancholy at separation, glance deeply in yourself. All of us live in uniform space, and really loved one will remain to that for you always even if you are on opposite points of the globe. Consider it more often.
2. Circumstances of separation are different. Sometimes before the person there is a choice: to leave or go after darling. It in turn too means separation from the house, many people, etc. Most difficult in this situation that who got used to comfort, in any its manifestations. But the world does not stand still therefore the person should not relax too. If you safely move towards changes, pain from partings will not even visit you. The future is unknown to anybody therefore it is better if you are always ready to surprises.
3. But, of course, it is difficult to person to bring up itself resistant to any deprivations. Therefore happens to parting very not easy to reconcile. Work will become effective medicine in this case. Your daily activity bringing income means not only. Work can be and spiritual, for example, reading books, a visit of the museum. Devote your free time to various occupations which are capable to carry away you. Their purpose is to force you to forget about melancholy therefore it is better that they were really interesting and pleasant to you. Sports exercises, walks in the fresh air, communication with friends help. Try not to do nothing and alone - then you too quickly can "slide" in melancholy. As soon as again caught themselves on grief, mentally send to the person for whom you grieve, hi. Do not think of how to you it is bad without him, and all heart wish it good luck and success.