Nobody wants to share the young man with other woman. Especially if it is his ex-wife. And often thrown wives haunt the husbands and interfere them with the relations with new women. Of course, here it is necessary to understand that not to put the past anywhere, but it is possible to take away the ex-wife nevertheless.
Instruction
1. The most important that should not be done is to arrange dismantling. It is impossible to run to it home and to lift all entrance on ears. Neighbors in that case will appear on its party, and you will look just ridiculously. And the husband, of course, learns about your such act, and it will be not in your advantage. Men are created so that cannot break completely those links which they had with the former wife, especially if in that family there was a child.
2. If she gets your darling the calls and sms, constantly demands the help in education of the child, then for a start try to talk to it. Explain that time he left her, she means it does not arrange, and anything to return back. Instead of spending time for the ex-husband, maybe, it is better for it to be engaged in search of the new happiness.
3. Tell that you not against communication of the husband with their general child. Even, on the contrary, offer that she allowed it to take away the son for the weekend. You track that the child was fed in time and has a good time. And she can give this time to herself. Perhaps, she will try suit the destiny. And then will be to you also she is grateful.
4. If she makes such concessions, then over time you will even be able to become with her friends. And it will allow to control the relations of your husband from former, you will always be aware of their meetings. Perhaps, further you together with darling will come for the child not to leave him alone with the first wife.
5. If it was not succeeded to come into contact, do not show to the man that you experience experiences concerning his communication with former. Let it will have an impression that you do not attach significance to these meetings as you trust it and are sure of his love for you. It will even more ennoble you in his eyes and will force to look at the relations with former in a new way. Unostentatiously be interested as there took place the meeting with the child whether it is necessary than to help, prompt what to buy on future visit.
6. And the most reliable way to take away former is to give birth to the child. Then the husband will switch all attention to new family, in all of you will help and it will have any more no excess time that according to the first requirement to rush in the first family. And the ex-wife will understand that you had family relations, and to return nothing to her any more. Also will leave you alone.