Some time you were happily married and nothing, appear, saddened your marriage. And here you learned that the wife changes you. Naturally, you think how it is better to arrive. There cannot be one effective strategy for all. The human relations - the delicate area demanding individual approach for each case.
Instruction
1. At first weigh everything pros and cons. Solve whether really you want to keep the relations with the wife or all of them are equally doomed. For this purpose think whether there is your fault in betrayal of the wife, whether you pushed her on it, or tendency to incorrectness - property of its character. If the fault after all lies with you, you can try to correct everything.
2. Analyze that specifically you made not so in what you were wrong in your relations with the wife. Perhaps, she to you already pointed to some nuances, and you did not pay attention. If you are ready to make concessions, have with the wife a heart-to-heart talk, let it know that her words and desires are important for you. But at the same time you do not say to her that you know of her lover, otherwise she can decide that this good means of manipulation of you, and will change and further.
3. Perhaps, the wife received not enough attention from you lately - correct it. Present her flowers, invite at cinema or restaurant, as at the time of a rose and candy stage. You spend together time more often and communicate. Try to find some general hobby or interest and be engaged in it together. In other words, refresh the feelings. Let the wife will remember for what she fell in love with you.
4. Become again attractive to the wife. If you have problems with physical shape, register to the gym. Begin to eat properly - you can make it together with the spouse if it is interesting to her. If you got used to spend after work everything time in front of the TV or the computer, show more activity. Help the wife about the house or think up interesting occupation for yourself or for all family. Let the wife will see in you the interesting active personality.
5. If the wife began to change you because of unfaithfulness of you, be ready to improve. If you are ready to be loyal to her, tell the wife about it. Explain to her as it is expensive to you and that you are ready to be only with it. If you change, you cannot demand fidelity from the partner.
6. If, on the contrary, you the exemplary family man, and the wife changes because of love for thrills, try to act on the contrary. Make so that she was jealous of you. Poflirtuyte with other women, for example, colleagues. It has to be not too obvious, but the wife has to understand - you are attractive to other women. Most likely, after that the partner will appreciate you more and to be afraid to lose.
7. If you still blew off motes from the wife and were more interested person in your relations, try opposite tactics. If the wife considers that you cannot live without her and all are ready to forgive her, she can change, hoping that to it it will escape punishment. In this case make what she does not expect from you. Show indifference to its extramarital affair. Pay attention to it less. Work more and you see off time with friends. It can force the wife to miss you and to your attention, she will want to return your love and will leave the lover.