How often it is possible to hear from the woman that the husband does not understand her, in family at the slightest pretext, is worth telling several words, scandal breaks out. That it did not occur, it is necessary to look narrowly at first at that as well as what you speak among themselves about. Following several rules of how to speak with darling, it is possible to reach mutual understanding and to create the atmosphere of harmony and love in family.
Instruction
1. Remember what you tell not with the subordinate, and with the closest and loved for you person, never address him by last name. Especially in an intimate situation. In public places and in the company of friends it is possible to address it by name.
2. In a circle of the family address darling not by name, and think up a tender nickname which will cause in it warm associations. You will feel at once as far as it becomes more pleasant to you to be in the company of the spouse.
3. You do not slight darling even if he is not with you nearby, but especially if both of you are in an environment of colleagues and friends. It can humiliate it, and you will gain reputation of the woman with bad and evil temper.
4. Asking darling to make something on the house, do not begin your request with reproaches and memories of what he did not make last year. Do not ask whether he can satisfy a request, and just ask. Even if he will begin to grumble, it not because he considers your request unfair but because you distracted him from its some own works. As soon as he has an opportunity, he will execute about what it was asked.
5. Do not swear, especially a mat. It oppresses.
6. Every day do not forget to ask darling as he spent day as his health that occurred good. Let he will answer with trite phrases, but then you on the example can teach him to be more frank.
7. When you go along the street, try to touch his hand, to smile in response to his look and jokes.