How to teach the daughter to be happy in love

How to teach the daughter to be happy in love

All parents want happiness to the children. And women's happiness, as we know, consists in love. Understanding it, many mothers and fathers too, want to teach daughters to be happy in love.

Instruction

1. To have an opportunity to make the daughter happy, to teach her to something, it is necessary to come into contact with it, to become it the senior girlfriend or the friend if it is about the father, to achieve her trust.

2. To teach the daughter to be happy in love, it is necessary to impart it self-confidence and self-respect. It will be difficult for diffident girl to draw attention of the "correct" gentlemen. She will underestimate the advantages, and she will be pursued by fear to be rejected. In attempts to minimize these risks, the girl will unconsciously choose and "attract" to herself "unenviable" grooms. Diffident girls often take a position of the victim in the relations, allowing badly it is bad to treat himself. That to your daughter there was nothing similar, praise her. Admire her appearance, progress, abilities, mind. These easy actions will help you to make the daughter happy, adding the girl of self-confidence.

3. To teach the daughter to be happy in love, it is necessary to give her the love since the childhood. "Nedolyublenny" parents the girl will always try "to gather additionally" love which was not enough for it in the childhood. If to such girl carries, and the worthy man will fall in love with her, the girl will try to get from him all that love which she received less in the childhood. Such girl can infinitely demand from the man of confirmation of his love. The man will seek to prove at first to it the feelings, but requirements of the uncertain girl, as a rule, will grow. After all, the man, without having sustained, most likely, will prefer to abandon such lady. To make the daughter happy, parents have to let the girl know that she is loved by them, and is necessary to them. It is a little simple to love the daughter, it is necessary to show her this love: not to stint tender words, embraces, praises.

4. To teach the daughter to be happy in love, parents have to teach the girl to love also themselves. The girl who got used to be well-loved by parents will love herself, and will be happy in love. To teach the girl to love itself, it is not enough to show the love and to praise the daughter. Teach the girl to accept yourself such what she is. Help the girl to learn to hide the shortcomings and to emphasize advantages. Teach the daughter to look after yourself, to watch over the health, appearance and a figure.

5. Also your positive example will help to be happy in love of your daughter. Show on the example of your relations as it is correct to build them. The girl has to see model of family in which the love and mutual respect reigns since the childhood. Then it will be easier for the grown-up daughter to transfer this model to the relations. You teach the girl on the example structurally to solve the arising problems, to bypass acute angles. The girl since the childhood has to study communication with men.

6. That your daughter was happy in love, cultivate in it merits with which it is easier to walk on life. Develop her communicative skills, encourage sociability, you teach positive outlook on life. Accustom the girl to be in charge of housekeeping. These qualities will help it to build family life.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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