Any woman wants that reckoned with her, perceived her as the full-fledged personality. How to achieve respect of the spouse? The given advice will help.
Instruction
1. If the man ceased to perceive seriously your opinion, to reckon with your desires and feelings. Try to understand when it began. Analyze the behavior what mistakes of you could provoke such behavior of the spouse. If you know about shortcomings which irritate the husband, quickly get rid of them.
2. Try to adjust an order in life, meet the man from work. Let it be always waited by a tasty dinner and the quiet atmosphere in the house. Generally, become the good hostess and the wife. The man has to come back home with pleasure, he will surely estimate your works.
3. If scandal is about to happen, try to calm down, you should not continue a conversation with voices raised. Do not pour out on the spouse a flow of abuse, it is necessary to discuss a specific situation an act, and becoming personal, only to pour out a stream of negative emotions, it is possible to tell in a fit of temper superfluous what you will be sorry then about. And the offended man will change to you the relation in a negative side.
4. Leave to the man his personal space and freedom to solve problems independently. Avoid constantly control, persuasive calls, suspicions, trust the spouse. Such behavior pushes away men, he does not want to come back home and listen to lamentations. Protective reaction of men is shown in full ignoring of the wife.
5. Do not annoy the husband excessive care and caress, especially if noticed that he is irritated by concrete words and actions. Respect yourself, your love is valuable, your attention needs to be deserved every day. Let the man seek to look for your arrangement.
6. Learn to occupy yourself with favourite business, all free time with the spouse, especially is optional to spend if you see his discontent. Have a rest without it, see friends, visit places, new to yourself, be engaged in a new hobby. Force the man to miss you, let worries because of your absence a little.
7. Learn to love yourself. Work on increase in a personal self-assessment, bring up in yourself internal force. In the relations with the spouse, accurately let know what tone it is impossible to talk to you what behavior from the husband you do not maintain. Defend the opinion in any question.