If the woman is overloaded with housework, it has an adverse effect on her health and mood. To avoid such misunderstanding, it is necessary to call to the aid the husband. Gradually accustoming the man to some household chores, you will be able to receive the full-fledged housekeeper.
Instruction
1. Within several days just do not perform the habitual homework. When the man sees how many clothes you wash and iron what mountains of ware you should wash up, and will eat store pelmeni, it is very probable that he at last will estimate your daily work and will agree to undertake a part of duties.
2. Divide household chores among themselves and the husband. For example, he washes the dishes and takes out garbage, and you iron clothes and cook food. It is also possible to distribute obligations for days of the week: on Monday, Wednesday and Friday the dishes are washed by you, and on Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday – your partner.
3. Teach darling to perform any given homework as you find necessary. It appears, some men do not know how to do it it is good.
4. Buy the modern equipment with a set of options. It is no secret that men are more inclined to interaction with various gadgets, than women. Ask the husband to deal with the new vacuum cleaner or the dishwasher. Until he gets acquainted with the fancy equipment, he will understand that to bring order by means of such devices will not make big work. After that it will be simpler to you to involve the husband in performance of housework.
5. Deliver to the man the ultimatum and tell it that if it does not do this and it, you will not do and. Of course, not the really honest way, but effect of it is impressive. But you remember that blackmail should not be rough as men do not love pressure. Influence it softly, but it is persistent.
6. If at your blessed there are any preferences in housework, grant it option. Let the man do what is pleasant to him.
7. Do not force the husband to carry out household chores just like that – "that did not relax". Its help has to be appropriate and demanded upon. Do not turn darling into the housemaid. Let efforts on the house will be joint occupation.
8. Surely you praise the husband for any manifestation of economy, place emphasis on how well at it any given business turns out. Men like to feel the importance. Having received from you a sincere official message of thanks, your partner will make everything to hear these words once again.