Treason of darling is included into the three of the most frequent reasons for suicide. So if you decided to admit incorrectness, it is necessary to approach very competently and delicately this question.
1. Prepare heart medicines. Information on incorrectness so strongly shocks the partner that can become him badly when he hears this news. In advance be prepared for that in the next availability there was water and drugs.
2. You speak about treason alone with the partner. This information – a huge stress for the person. Many experience feeling of deep humiliation, learning about the treason fact. There is no need to strengthen this bitter feeling due to publicity.
3. Suggest to discuss the incident reasons. Psychologists call treason a point in the problem relations. In fact, a campaign on the left – a final chord in long ripening emotional conflict in family. If you tried not to notice problems which as a result led to treason, now it is a high time to discuss them. Your partner has to have chance to realize the and your mistakes in the future to avoid them.
4. Be ready to break in relations. Treason is considered an irreversibility point in the relations. After the fact of treason becomes known to the partner, many relations break. And if remain, then their quality becomes absolutely other. You have to be in advance ready to consequences of the decision to report about incorrectness.
5. Do not offend the partner the recognition. Try to convey information in the most delicate look. Let know once to darling that you changed not because he is bad, and for the special reasons. It is considered that in the problem relations weaker partner decides on treason. So be honest and admit that instead of solving the conflicts, you decided to run away from them to the new relations.
6. Tell about sore. There are also other situations: the partner humiliated long time or offended you, ignored or not highly appreciated. Tell it about it. It has to get a chance to improve if wants.