How to tell parents that I was expelled from higher education institution

How to tell parents that I was expelled from higher education institution

Expel from higher education institution represents a situation which is most often unpleasant not only for the pupil, but also his parents. Not to allow growth of the family conflict, be prepared for a conversation about your assignment.

1. Remember under what circumstances you went to the university. Quite often happens so that the young man not too well succeeds in any given discipline, however parents all the same insist that he got higher education on it. Education on improper specialty and the poor progress following from this – some of the main reasons for expel of students. Nevertheless, at the same time you can tell parents that they were actually wrong and forced you to receiving such education though you also tried to convince them of the return. In this case there is a chance that parents will understand the mistake and will not begin to scold you.

2. Think how quality was education in your higher education institution. Perhaps, you and other students often complained that some teachers of a popustitelska treat work and insufficiently kindly train students for examinations, practical training, etc. If it and actually became the reason of your poor progress, try to tell parents. For bigger persuasiveness you can show, for example, negative reviews about the university on the Internet, and then there is a probability that your relatives will understand your position.

3. If you already have a full-time employment, and you were deducted for the reason that could not combine it with study, tell parents about your plans for the present and the future. You can tell that you are already quite independent and capable to provide yourself, successfully move ahead on a career ladder, etc. In this regard you do not see sense in further receiving the higher education. At the same time many famous and rich people also did not study up at the time, but it did not prevent them to become successful at all: among them - Bill Gates, Steve Jobs and many others. It is unlikely in this case parents will prevent your career and will definitely not force to exchange highly paid work for several years of study.

4. Give also other arguments concerning the fact that expel from higher education institution is not the tragedy. Perhaps, you would like to try in other sphere, and not late to pass to other specialty or into other higher education institution. Convince parents that now there are many opportunities for receiving the highest or a secondary special education. Besides, most higher education institutions allow a possibility of recovery of the deducted students therefore you use reasonable efforts to continue to get higher education.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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