Recognition in feelings is a courageous and decisive step. The love arises not only at first sight, it can also appear eventually. Cases when one of friends fell in love with another are frequent.
To make a declaration of love to the friend
There is a statement that between the man and the woman there cannot be friendly relations. However life situations develop in the most various way, proving the return.
There is a question: "How to admit to the friend the love for it?". Companionship, as a rule, does not overstep certain limits of relationship. Therefore the sudden revelation about love sympathy will be wrong as instead of the expected reciprocity, can cause negative reaction of other person. In such situation the rash and hasty recognition in feelings will have obviously unsuccessful outcome.
To avoid an awkward situation which can affect friendship between people subsequently, it is necessary to choose a right moment. It is admissible to admit feelings to the friend not directly, and by means of hints. It is possible to give as an example a fictional situation in which old friends, after a while companionship, began the relations as couple of lovers. Most likely, the interlocutor will express the opinion on this situation. Thus, it will be possible to define the relation of an object of sympathy for similar situations.
Opportunity for declaration of love
The opportunity for straight talk can be defined in the course of unostentatious companionship. It is possible to begin with small experiments, narrowing the established borders of friendly interaction: to give a thicket compliments, to change a look, manners and tone during communication. It is known that the nonverbal signals sent by a human body bear in themselves a large amount of information. Watching reaction of the interlocutor, it is possible to define his relation, mood and emotions. Talking, it is necessary to come into visual contact with the friend, to touch it more often, to unostentatiously stroke his hand. It is important to estimate reaction of the interlocutor to the happening changes during communication which will indicate its readiness to hear declaration of love. If the friend remains relaxed, does not use the closed gestures, answers with mutual touches, then the conversation about feelings is quite appropriate. Declaration of love and serious intentions in relation to the friend can make double sense. For example, speaking about strong love feelings, and, having met unexpected reaction (indignation, confusion, denial), one may say, that recognition has friendly and comic character. It is possible to admit feelings to the friend also in the letter. Having stated the relation and thoughts, it is possible to ask an object of sympathy to give the answer in the same form. Unlike personal recognition, this way excludes awkward pauses in a conversation and the spoiled meeting. At worst, without having received the expected reaction, it is possible to ask the friend to keep trusting relationship, without focusing attention on recognition.