How to tell the girl that she is pleasant

To make the first step and to tell the girl about the sympathy can be difficult even to the most courageous, courageous and fearless guys.

Women can react differently to recognitions therefore it is necessary to do everything very correctly and carefully. Let's understand as it is correct and what to speak to the girl about sympathy and what methods exist for this purpose.

Effective ways how to interest the girl

All representatives of a strong half of mankind wish to be pleasant to women. However most of them fail and cannot build up the successful gender relationship. Meanwhile it is quite simple to interest the girl and to tell her about the feelings if to know effective techniques and the basic principles of communication with representatives of an opposite sex.

Find the general occupation

Nothing so brings together people as the general occupations, interests, the purposes for this reason experts recommend to find out for creation of the strong relations from the girl, than she is interested and fond.

Perhaps, she likes to draw, dance, reads a fantasy or detective stories, is fond of sport, goes to gym. Proceeding from the obtained information, it is necessary to discuss together with it the read book, to talk about pets, to visit a concert of favorite band.

As soon as the man is able to find a common ground, it is necessary to grasp and develop at once for them. At this stage of creation of the relations it is necessary to show to the girl as it is cheerful and interesting to spend time together. Similar general hobbies are capable to become a starting point to more serious communication.

You pay compliments

Compliments — one of the best tools which allows to hint the beauty about sympathy both at the first meeting, and at long communication. However compliments have to be sincere, honest, appropriate and, the main thing, dosed.

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It is possible to tell the lady that she has special color of eyes or beautiful hair, a fine hairstyle or very stylish dress. Women are not indifferent to the compliments connected with their figure.

The thin girl can tell that she very fragile and gentle as Thumbelina, and to ladies with curvy shapes — that they have an ideal figure. Also, pronouncing compliments, it is possible to do any comparisons, for example, blue eyes as the bottomless sea, etc.

Show interest in the girl

Before expressing to the girl sympathy, professionals advise sincerely to show to it attention: to be interested in her life, health, work, a hobby. The relations will be stronger and more serious if she feels interest of the man, and not only in the sexual plan, but also spiritual. It is necessary to be respectful to an adoration subject, to a thicket to call, offer meetings, the help. At contact with the girl the sincerity and honesty is very important therefore all acts need to be made with all the heart.

Qualitatively you joke

The male sense of humour is considered one of the best qualities drawing attention of women. Ability to make laugh — important advantage of the man which distinguishes it from the others.

The wit and qualitative jokes are capable to have positive impact on the relations in an initial phase when the girl is able to relax, feel easily and easy. If the man manages to attract interest of it, then further its associations with it will be connected only with the pleasant and joyful moments.

Important! In fight for sympathy for the girl it is not recommended to shine with trite, low-quality jokes or jokes from a series of black humour. It will only worsen her perception and will push away.

Allocate the girl from surrounding women

At communication with the lady the experts advise, first of all, to let it know that the man not just wants the relations with any girl and that in it it attracts interest. It is necessary to tell honestly, than it attracts, than differs from others what lines of its character or appearance special. It is necessary to convince her that it is better than others, much more beautifully, more cleverly, more attractively. It is possible to note safely its advantages, for example, You have an ideal figure, To go crazy what beautiful eyes at you, I Will be needs the girl with such character, etc. remarkably if the compliment concerning its uniqueness sounds in the company, among her friends and acquaintances. It will give it confidence and will significantly raise the guy in her eyes.

Find the moment and tell the truth

Honesty — one their most important qualities which is highly appreciated by a female. There is nothing terrible if in a suitable situation the man opens the heart and especially the woman — not the telepathist will tell about the feelings, is not able to read mind and can guess the attitude towards her only.

The best how to show sympathy — to tell directly: You cool, You are pleasant to me. Psychologists advise to wait a right moment and to tell about the feelings why among dozens of other girls it chose it, in what its feature, etc.

Important! During recognition it is not necessary to use the worn-out, too clever, beautiful phrases from books or movies. It is necessary to remain itself, to speak simply, perhaps, it is even banal, but is sincere.

You should not speak about the sympathy in public, in an environment of acquaintances. For this purpose it is necessary to choose the quiet, quiet, cozy place where nobody will be able to disturb a couple. Perhaps, feelings of the man will become for the lady a bolt from the blue therefore it is recommended not to hurry her with the answer, to let time think, to analyze and make the decision.

As the girl can beautifully make an avowal of sentiments

Recognition to the girl in sympathy implies something very romantic, gentle and a little fantastic.

By phone

Unfortunately, to tell about feelings to the girl, looking in eyes, not all men are ready to attract, however, attention and modern technologies will help to attract her, and smartphones are more right. And first of all, it is possible to use the Onegina method — to write to darling the SMS message or even the whole letter. One of advantages of this method is that during recognition there is no need directly to contact to an adoration object what some most of all are afraid of.

Besides, in messages it is possible to tell about the feelings one rush, in full. The young man has an opportunity to correctly be at loss for words, to calm down, write that text which he wants. Professionals advise the created SMS message not to send to the girl at once.

It is better to keep it in phone, to return to it after a while, to re-read several times and, perhaps, to correct some moments which appeared inappropriate. SMS with recognitions should not be very short and contain the learned phrases as similar phrases were transformed to the turns of speech which are not carrying deep, sincere meaning long ago.

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Also it is possible to admit feelings by means of phone call. However it is worth being prepared for it carefully: to think over the beginning of dialogue how to bring to a necessary subject what to be at loss for words not to push away a sympathy subject. The recognition can be presented in the form of classical verses or to recite the poem of own composition.

After the verse is read, it is necessary to tell in a few words the lady about sympathy, to explain how it is expensive. During phone call it is necessary to speak accurately, surely, rather loudly, it is impossible to mumble, illegibly to murmur, etc. The man has to be sure as much as possible of the feelings, and, therefore, the woman has to be sure of him.

Live

Adult, strong, responsible and self-assured men prefer to do recognitions live, looking the partner fool in the face, attentively watching his reaction. There is a set of original ways to tell the lady about the feelings:

1. In spite of the fact that times of serenades under a balcony sank Into oblivion long ago, girls just adore romantic acts. If the man owns a game on any tool, then it has a tremendous opportunity to organize darling unforgettable recognition — to sing the romantic and sincere song under its window. However even in the absence of musical skills or hearing it is possible to carry out this action by means of friends, acquaintances, relatives who will perform with pleasure as accompanists.
2. Recognition in sympathy by means of verses is considered one of the most romantic and original, especially if verses are specially written for a sympathy object. To tell about the feelings even verses, it is rather hard therefore experts advise before this important step well to rehearse in house conditions, to learn by heart all words, to consider intonation, etc.
3. To order the song. It is possible to make a confession in the feelings on a romantic appointment or a dinner by means of a song to order. For this purpose previously it is necessary to reserve a table for two and during evening imperceptibly to ask to sing for it the song of romantic character about love.
4. Drawings and inscriptions. Despite banality, a recognition method in sympathy under an entrance or on walls perfectly uses as inscriptions asphalt and is rather effective. It is possible just to leave in a hooligan way on asphalt recognition I love you or to show the creativity and to hang posters with the words of love on its way for work or home.
5. Bouquet of roses. In the presence of the minimum financial opportunities the girl can make a romantic surprise and to send her to work or home a huge bouquet of its favourite flowers with a grateful note. Such romantic gesture will be appreciated by each woman.

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The correct hints which will help to express feelings

As a rule, guys are not able to express competently the sympathy at all, often play a trick on the darling, touch it, behave as children. Some, on the contrary, tell the truth bluntly, than can cause antipathy from the girl. However it is possible to express the emotions for a start the correct hints from which it is possible to distinguish a little. Verses with a hint. You should not neglect classics — verses which were from time immemorial used by knights for expression of feelings.

Verses with hints can be found in Network, to write to the girl independently and to send in the SMS message or by mail:

You know that one you are such,

Also is not present such as you, on all earth …

And I have to you a great love …

Also there is a question: and how I to you?

or

You are the best of all around all over the world!

You are sincere, gentle such …

I at once in crowd noticed you,

Among them there were you as another …

And I want you to know about it …

That remembered that I admire you …

I want you to dream of that now,

As I caress you and I kiss …

Statuses. With the advent of social networks it became much easier to express sympathy. The girl can send a card with recognitions, the verse, the song. However, if the guy hesitates of similar recognition, he has an opportunity on the page to establish the certain status In Contact, FB, OK, etc. indicating its not indifference to the specific girl:

1. On her palms my lifeline is drawn.
2. Do what forces you to feel happy. Be with those who force you to smile. Laugh. You love while you live … Do not think of time, do not listen to others opinion, and do not think of what can be then … Then can not be.
3. It is possible to endure all. The main thing that that person who will endure it together with you was near.
4. I want to be with you both today, and tomorrow, and in 100 years.

SMS messages. The modern smartphone is considered one of the best assistants who allows to solve love problems.

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It is possible to admit the sympathies, having just called, and at insufficient courage — having written SMS with a hint:

1. My sweet angel! Since that moment as I saw you, my heart for ages remained in your captivity.
2. The baby with black eyes, with a smile the proud, you do not allow me to sleep at the nights, you own life mine.
3. You do not even represent how much I think of you.

Images. Romantic pictures which can be sent to the beloved on network are considered as one more fine method to hint at sympathy. It can be various images in the form of hearts, flowers, soft toys. However, experts do not advise to use this method too long, it is necessary to pass to bigger and to express the emotions is more effective and realistic. Hints at a conversation. It is the best of all to hint the ladylove about the sympathy at live contact, at the same time the man should not be afraid to say verbally, speaking about feelings and emotions.

It is possible to tell the girl about her appearance:

1. I very much like your curlies.
2. Your eyes very deep and kind.
3. You are very lovely. At a meeting with you my heart just escapes from a breast.

To express sympathy, it is possible to admit emotional bond:

1. Only near you I feel that I live really.
2. With you to me it is so good, more than ever and with anybody was not, I do not want to leave you for a minute.

It is difficult to believe in it, but it is sometimes extremely difficult to men to express the sympathy to the pleasant girl. However, as shows life, male indecision — not the best quality allowing to construct the serious relations therefore in this case experts advise to work quickly and resolutely, at first to hint at the feelings, and then to express them sincerely and beautifully at a meeting.