You consist in the long, happy relations with the most beautiful girl in the world. You think that you from each other any more have no secrets that between you full confidence. In similar circumstances many men think of expansion of family. But how to tell the girl about the readiness for such responsible step?
Instruction
1. Men often are afraid to express similar desires directly. Most likely, it seems to them that the aspiration put into words to bring the child can sound silly or ridiculously. Actually, the idea which even is not up to the end issued about children — the major moment in any relations. These thoughts or desires say that your feelings are stronger, than ever. It demonstrates that you are ready to carry out all life with the woman.
2. Before expressing the desire aloud, well consider it. Wonder whether your couple is ready to the typical difficulties expecting young parents? Whether you are ready to change of all tenor of life? Whether you will cope with those changes which inevitably will happen in mentality and an organism of future mother? You have to understand that moral and physical support of you it will be necessary for your woman, more than ever earlier.
3. Think of material aspect of similar cardinal changes in life. Do you haveDo you haveDo you have housing whether there will be enough for you funds for purchase of things, necessary for the kid? Whether you are ready to provide really the family, so far your companion stays at home with the child?
4. Prepare yourself for need to go often on doctors, to visit advice centers. Wonder whether you are ready to help the woman about the house. Whether you are ready to renounce the "young" freedom. It is necessary to understand that appearance of the small child will demand from you to refuse a sit-round gathering in bar, from football matches, perhaps, it will affect your career as the number of business trips and even working hours (if you got used to overwork) should be reduced at first.
5. If you have a solution of all these tasks and answers to all similar questions, you are ready to a conversation with the girl. Think that you will tell her. You should not mention the desire between times, resembling. Invite her in good restaurant, surround with care and most directly, but softly tell it about the feelings and desires.
6. The loving woman, most likely, will be delighted with similar words and feelings of you. Express readiness to maintain it during pregnancy, in brief state the reflections about possible difficulties. It will allow you to discuss all corners and difficulties. If the girl has any questions, answer them in detail and honestly.