If you stopped loving the girl, then not to avoid a conversation about it. How to tell about what stopped loving that it is not strong to hurt its feelings? There are several advice which will help to get out of this situation with the minimum losses.
Not all relations last so much how many there is a wish. And sometimes there comes the moment when it is necessary to tell the girl that your feelings to it sputtered out and ended. But how to make it? How to tell the girl that stopped loving her so that it is not strong to hurt her feelings and to keep the friendly relations?
Not to wait
The big problem of the present is to hold the dead relations. If your feelings to it cooled down, you more it do not love, then it is not necessary to suffer and wait for something. By the itself situation will not be resolved. It is necessary to speak and speak directly. And, of course, only at a personal meeting. Remember what to leave by phone or correspondence – bad form. Take courage to tell the girl in eyes that you do not feel to it love any more. That parting was less sad, do not use a trite phrase "let's remain friends". Tell that the girl is dear to you that you wish her good luck and for this reason you provide it freedom of choice, you release it. It will be more humane, than to lie, accuse of something and to list all its misses.
Not to lie
Do not lie to the girl at all. For example, that you need time to think. If you really stopped loving it, then do not pull and do not invent excuses. Tell directly that your love passed that you want freedom, and you want your girl to be happy too. Tell that parting is not the end yet that it began something new in life rather. For example, new relations. Be not cruel and do not give excess hopes for restoration of your relations. Tell better that before the girl the new horizons open that she can become much happier without you, than suffers in the relations without reciprocity.
You do not speak about the reasons
Never you speak about the reasons of your dislike what they would not be. First, if your love passed because of the wrong behavior of the girl, then it will offend it. Secondly, if other girl became the reason, then you should not report about it. You will make only more sick. You can tell that your relations though were good, unfortunately, sputtered out, but guilty of it is not present. After all, you can take all blame even stronger not to wound the girl. Let thinks better what you bad, than looks for the reasons in itself and falls apart even stronger. Anyway do not shift all blame on the girl even if the reason that you stopped loving it, is in it. Be a gentleman in relation to that which was once loved. Same there was your choice, you have to respect it.