Parting always is painful irrespective of who became the initiator of a gap. However, it is more difficult to guy to reconcile to the fact that he was thrown as he sees in it a consequence of own inferiority. The woman planning to suspend relations with the man needs to be very careful.
Instruction
1. Never listen to those who say that it is necessary to prepare the guy before telling him that between you everything is over. Believe, your attempts to soften blow will not lead to anything good. The man will feel that you train him for a serious conversation, and, as usual, will suspect the worst. Keep nerves once of darling: do not extend the painful moments.
2. Try not to say that you are not the last woman in his life that he still will meet love on the way. Understand, your partner is not able to think of the future yet and, agree speeches how he will live further, in your lips sound strange, it is even haughty.
3. Do not try to calm the former beloved. It will not relieve his pain, and, on the contrary, will strengthen it. Seeing your pity, the person will think that he looks so insignificant that no other feelings to it can be had. Be not selfish, do not try to smooth the fault manifestations of "kindness" which help rather you, than the guy.
4. You do not say that you need to leave, what will be so better. For whom it is necessary? For whom it is better? Correctly, to you and for you. You should not decide for the guy how to react to current situation. It is impossible to deprive of the person of the right for sufferings. Perhaps, you want that to it it was good, but you will be able to make nothing for achievement of it.
5. You do not take French leave. The guy will hope that you will return if does not hear explanations. Believe, it can complicate life not only to him, but also you.
6. Parting - a thing serious. Before to decide on it, it is necessary to think well. But, when a choice is made, it is impossible to recede. Do not make concessions if the guy tries to return you. The love passes irrevocably: the past to hold sense is not present. You leave without turning around back. Know, ahead new life!