The woman of the first learns that there will be a kid soon then she should decide how to tell the guy about pregnancy. Such important information needs to be given with preparation, especially if the child who is not planned.
Long-awaited pregnancy
If couple long time tried to conceive the child, and at last it turned out, it is possible to organize a celebration. Make a tasty dinner, beautifully put on, do a make-up and hair to be fine at this moment. When he takes an interest in the reasons, it is possible to put hands on a stomach and to tell that you will be three soon.
It is possible to use also more original ways. For example, to present it bootees, a pacifier, a small bottle or other things which are connected with the child. Or use the forgotten way of communication – the telegram. Write simply "I expect a baby" or formulate it funny, it seems "I will be in 9 months. Stork". It is also possible to buy a card "For the father".
If the child who is not planned
But if you became pregnant not from long unsuccessful attempts to conceive the child with the husband, and off-schedule, then it is necessary to be prepared for a conversation. For a start tell that you have a delay and look at his reaction. Most likely, on it you will be able already to predict reaction to the message about pregnancy. Pick up time for this important conversation. Men more positive perceive information if they ate, got enough sleep, have a rest after work and do not hurry anywhere. Catch such moment and begin a serious conversation, but without drama introduction "we need to talk". Remind about a delay, and report that your expectations were confirmed – you are pregnant. After that pledge the word to it. Be not afraid if he does not cry for joy at once. He needs time to recover after such stunning news so you do not hurry him. If he is longer silent 10 minutes or will try to change the subject, tell that you need to discuss it. Even if he will tell that he is not ready to become a father, it is better not to go to the mat, and just to leave. It will be so useful for your nerves and the relations. The guy can think again and if you in a rush of a quarrel tell offensive words, it can not return. It is the most difficult if the guy repeatedly spoke against the child. It is necessary to report this news, but can be difficult to say directly you it. Then call it and if you wantif you want to interrupt a conversation – you will just press a release. If you want to keep the child and the relations, be ready to defend the desires. In advance prepare answers to all his excuses. For example, if he complains about financial problems, report that your friends will give children's things, and you will be able to earn additionally in the decree.