If you entirely realized that it is time to begin the new period in life, but to the present partner at this stage of the place is not present, costs still time without special emotions to consider. And to work accurately, logically and resolutely.
It is required to you
- Confidence, desire to change the life, a serious spirit
Instruction
1. In details present the life without this guy. If you really any more value nothing, you should not postpone an important point, in every possible way explaining yourself the indecision (""I will not spoil to it days off" ", " "I will tell after holidays"" and so forth). The earlier everything will end - the better for you two.
2. Be ready to negative reaction from the guy and your friends. Also keep in mind that to you it will be sore too, - at least because you got used to this person.
3. Prepare the guy: let your phone calls and messages will become shorter also to the land, meet less often and ""quickly"", reduce the number of embraces and kisses... If you live with the guy together - do not arrange dismantling, quietly and detached lead the separate life.
4. During the conversation accurately tell that between you everything is over. There are several options of succession of events. If the guy was delighted, it is worth in spite of the fact that it and is unpleasant, smiling and telling: ""I am glad that though in something our opinions coincide"".
5. If he threatens to commit suicide, then report that you do not bear responsibility for his life and its threats do not act on you.
6. If the guy does not react to your words in any way - finish a conversation and do not stick to it; there will be enough apologies.
7. If he reproaches only you, do not get with him into a dispute, tell only that you understand his experiences. If he in embarrassment asks: ""Of what I am guilty?" "and" "What to do?"", - do not try to philosophize in reply, show that too you worry and you do not know why so it turned out.