The love not always lasts eternally. And even if you met the young man, had to him feelings, over time they can pass. In this case it is necessary to tell the man about it.
How to be prepared for a serious conversation about the died love
If you understand that there are no feelings to the man any more, do not delay bitter recognition, and at once tell it about it. However before a serious conversation you need to be prepared and understand carefully to it for yourself the reasons which led to fading of feelings. Try to get it together and to find proper words.
How to report to the man that your love died
When you accurately realized for yourself that led to disappearance of your feelings, ask the young man to talk to you, but in advance warn him that the conversation will be very serious and, most likely, unpleasant. Let he will fix time for a meeting, and you will choose that place where nobody will be able to prevent you. It is better to finish speaking about a meeting in the neutral territory, but where there will be no many other people.
After you come to a meeting, begin a conversation with the fact that you spent together rather long time, in your relations there were different moments: both good, and bad. Thank the guy for the fact that he presented you a set of pleasant emotions and impressions, but tell that you got confused in the feelings and began to understand that your love for it already died away. It is not necessary to say to the guy that it seems to you that you more him do not love. The word "seems" is capable to present to the person false hope. You speak softly, but be categorical. Of course, your outright recognition will bring to the man pain, but your honesty will be the best that you will be able to make for it. When you admit lack of feelings, try to explain to the man what led to such a consequence, for yourself you already found out all reasons. If you met someone another, do not hide it, and honestly report about appearance of other man in your life. If your feelings died because of not too good and warm attitude to you this young man, let it know it. Perhaps, he will ask for you the second chance which he will use fully and will try to return your love. During the conversation do not accuse of everything only your man, at all what between you occurred, both are always guilty of it. Do not fall before insults and humiliations of the person to whom you and without a thing it caused mental anguish. Suggest the guy to remain friends, but be ready that your offer will be rejected by him.