Recognition - quite delicate moment. After the taken step forward, you will not be able to recede back any more or to pretend that it was the joke. Also it will be impossible and to prevent consequences which will not keep themselves waiting. And they can be various. The person can simply not understand, be frightened and not reciprocate you, but there can be all on the contrary – your recognition will give him a free hand. And you gain reciprocal recognition. In advance nobody can foresee it. Therefore it is necessary to be prepared properly before speaking about the feelings.
Instruction
1. It is necessary to study the person more attentively. Learn what is pleasant to him with whom communicates, than is fond. Study attentively his behavior, its style of communication, generally, everything, everything that somehow concerns it. Try not to frighten off the persistence, it can lead to the fact that you will begin to be avoided just, and will consider importunate. Closer acquaintance will require a lot of time and forces therefore have patience and continue to learn. If you want not only to make an avowal of sentiments, but also to gain reciprocal recognition, it is better to attract to itself interest gradually. Observe how this person treats you, maybe, from his party some courtesies proceed too, or, on the contrary, he ignores you.
2. Very good course – to become interested in hobbies of the person who was pleasant to you. You have to be fond sincerely of its hobby to understand, than he lives. It will give you an additional common ground. It is possible to try to approach the help of mutual friends if those are available. If they are absent, meet his companions, the general company very much brings together. And only when you will become rather close (the speech not about intimate proximity yet), it will be possible to tell about the feelings. If all of you hesitate to tell directly that the person is pleasant to you, write the letter, the sms or send the message online and wait.
3. No matter how you will make an avowal of sentiments, do not demand the answer at once at all. After all you decided to admit to the person, and is not obligatory at all that will answer you immediately reciprocity. Most often such recognition becomes surprise, the person is just lost and does not know how to behave in the circumstances.