Appearance of the child in family - happiness, however not all men so consider. If you wait for the kid, and your spouse is not ready to it yet, you have to try to find forces and to report about it to him.
Instruction
1. Remember that such important news as pregnancy and the forthcoming birth of the kid is very important therefore it is necessary to be prepared for a conversation with the spouse which is not ready to children yet very well. Choose for a conversation with darling that day when it is in good mood. The place in which you report to the husband about the pregnancy should not be populous, it is the best of all for you to remain alone therefore more preferable this evening to make a tasty dinner and to stay at home.
2. Begin a conversation with the fact that you very much love the soulmate, live together rather long time. Most likely, at you some money, perhaps already collected, there are housing and the car. Tell that you dream to become a mother for a long time and you want your house to be filled with joyful children's laughter. Look what will be reaction of your beloved. Perhaps, he will begin to look for excuses, to say to you that he is still not ready to become a father or doubts that at it it will turn out to give to the child good education or education. If the spouse started up an entrance similar tricks, try to assure it that it would leave the beautiful father, praise his responsibility and gravity, tell that he is the real man capable to cope with any difficulties.
3. Wait for reaction of the blessed. If it gives you flat refusal, and between you there will be a quarrel, it is better to leave announcement of similar news till the best times. If the husband began to doubt a little, can tell him about the pregnancy and that together you will surely cope with all problems, and from you wonderful parents will turn out.
4. Happens and so that after the message about the forthcoming birth of the child, the husband insists on abortion. In that case, tell it that you categorically against and will never take such step. Say to the spouse that give birth to the child one or with him, to you it not essentially. Tell that independently solve all the problems and you will bring up the excellent son or the daughter. Only the adult, serious and responsible person is capable of such act. Perhaps, after such words it will become a shame to your beloved with the minute weakness and cowardice, he once again properly will weigh everything pros and cons and will make the decision that after all it is time for it to get posterity and to live a happy and close-knit family.