From the scientific point of view the love lasts 3–4 years. Usually this period of marriage relationship the brightest. Then most often couple is overflowed by a routine, they get used, get used to each other, and interest in the partner as to an object of sexual desire dies away. But if to approach intelligently business, it is possible to return former interest, still not late. And even if your husband left you, there is a hope for his return, but only if you really strongly love it, but not just you feel dependence on it.
What the woman needs to make to tempt the husband
Most often the fact that after the woman receives a treasured stamp in the passport, it slowly plunges into a routine of house problems is the reason of cooling of the spouse to the spouse, forgetting to watch itself at the same time. She begins to wear comfortable clothes, to do a hair in style that stirred nothing. As a result the husband ceases to see in it that riddle that interested him earlier, to feel an intrigue. Therefore, first of all, before tempting the husband, there is he present or former, it is necessary to change itself a little.
Whether you know? According to the Spanish scientists, the woman in marriage it is inclined to obesity twice bigger, in comparison with the free lady. Besides if one of partners gains the weight, then probability at the second to get extra kilos increases by 37%.
To look after itself
When the woman ceases to watch herself, she instantly has excess centimeters in problem places. It undermines her self-confidence, and as a result — complexes appear. Therefore the married woman has to watch the body, regularly attending classes yoga, the pool, gyms. Besides sports activities improve blood circulation in an organism, so, blood flows to erogenous zones better. Thereof sexual excitement increases. Besides sports activities, the woman needs to pay attention to the shape in general.
The well-groomed, loving herself lady is allocated:
- the shining skin;
- the clean, healthy, accurately styled hair;
- faultless manicure;
- clean clothes and footwear;
- pleasant aroma of perfume.
To pick up the corresponding aroma
To enhance the sexuality, many experts recommend to pick up sexual aroma. Of course, not so just to make it, each person is demented by a certain aroma.
It is important! If you not the fan of flower aromas, but know that you to your man they to liking, can choose perfume with ambergris notes. This extract of animal origin gives to spirits flower and wood notes.
But nevertheless there are among them the most popular:
- chypre (unites ud, an incense, a sandal-wood tree, beans it is thin also musky notes, contains the molecules similar to testosterone molecules. A peculiar aroma with which it is possible to lose easily);
- flower (many men associate women with flowers therefore their notes are always appropriate in aroma. The rose runs the show of flowers);
- fresh (sparkling, green, moderately sweet, with notes of a jasmine and a mowed grass, citruses, a bergamot);
- powdery (according to men, it is the sexiest aroma which is associated with the elegant lady).
To reconsider clothes
Scientists proved that men are tempted by the woman's clothes therefore it is necessary to reconsider carefully the clothes, having withdrawn from it a comfortable sports suit, the worn-out cozy dressing gown, comfortable slippers and other. It is necessary to replace them with something easier, erotic. Of course, it does not mean at all that from your clothes comfortable things, especially such as warm bath robe have to disappear completely. They need just to be replaced with fresher, interesting and to use only when they are appropriate (after a shower, when carrying out general cleaning, house gymnastics, etc.).
Whether you know? Scientists from New York University established that men consider red and black color of linen the sexiest. Opposite reaction is caused by pink and green scale.
For daily carrying choose those clothes which will emphasize your best sides and your sexuality. It is necessary to pick up beautiful linen. At your clothes there have to be lacy bras, pants or the whole sets. And the more on them any frills, thingies, bows, the better. Material also has values. Incorporate the streaming fabrics. The set of linen can be added with stockings with garters.
To find self-confidence
Men very much do not like those women who are not happy with the appearance. If you know about any shortcomings of appearance, it is not necessary to report about them to the partner. Just silently begin to act or tell darling that decided to play sports or to keep to a diet to be even more attractive. Correction of the shortcomings will help to lift your self-assessment and together with it will help to find your advantages which need to be emphasized.
Learn how to win the man's heart.
To flirt
When the man, present or former, realizes that his half is interesting to other men, it causes in him jealousy. To awaken former interest of the partner, it is not obligatory to look for to him replacement. It is rather simple to poflirtovat. There are several simple receptions which can be experienced both on foreign men, and on the elect:
- You try to catch an eye of the partner and wink or smile if everything turned out. But be not overzealous that he did not decide that there is with you something is not right.
- Constantly smile. The smile disposes to communication and with it it is easier to coquet, than with a gloomy look.
- Be on a positive and with good mood. Of course, if you feel that today not your day and to you not to fun, then do not rape yourself. Wait day, and next time with new forces strain to be in action.
- Gestures, mimicry, position of a body are important at flirtation too. Such simple action as stroking of a cap from the handle or a leg of a glass, will thinly let know to the partner that you wish it. The main thing is to pick up correctly the place for such signs.
Important! During flirtation avoid the closing gestures, as the crossed hands on a breast. So you show that you are closed from the outside world, without wishing to contact to it.
As it is possible to tempt the husband
The main actions for seducing of the former and present husband are similar among themselves. The difference only in what present is near you, so, and will be much easier to work. In attempt to tempt the ex-husband it is necessary to define at first for itself is it important. If you tried to live or you already had relations with another, and all of you time felt that to you it is comfortable, but it was better with former then is a love, and it is necessary to restore former relationship. If you know that here only with it it was good, and everywhere it is bad, then it is not love, but attachment, and it is necessary to get rid of it. Having dealt with this moment, it is possible to begin to work.
Present
The died-away sexual inclination can try to be revived in the classical way:
- be tonsured or recolour hair;
- visit the cosmetologist, you can make a permanent make-up;
- change house clothes from convenient to more erotic;
- change something in the bedroom (other linen, small shift, add a candle, an aromapalochka);
- be in public together to the spouse, holding hands, lovely talking.
Together with it it is necessary to reconsider stereotypes of the behavior. Try to make together something fervent, reckless, as in youth. Try to plan joint carrying out days off. At the same time, if you go to the public, then think over the image so that it was pleasant to your elect and caused in it pride that it near such smart woman.
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It is worth to remember that spouses — the man. It is important for him that his darling sees him sexy not only in a bed. The coquetry, stroking has to be present at your relationship always. But here it is important not to be overzealous as men on the nature conquerors, and not so available fortress can entice them. For successful seducing the woman needs to learn:
- to communicate with blessed he is tender;
- to be gentle and womanly;
- it is constant to pay attention to the appearance, gait, a bearing;
- to forget about addictions;
- to make so that in the house was not only it is cozy, but sometimes and romantically;
- not to try to go to the party;
- to learn to solve all problems in dialogue, peacefully, quietly, without quarrels and senseless scandals;
- to raise the self-assessment to be a happy woman.
Former
In attempts to tempt being by no means it is impossible to show it that to you it is bad without it, and you in that that became wish to restore the former relations. Of course, only if you have a purpose — not fleeting communication for one night.
- Be always natural. It is not necessary to turn into the fatal beauty. It is rather simple to awaken in itself that spark which forced your spouse to pay attention to you earlier.
- Be sure, and this confidence should not be a mask, and your internal core.
- Estimate yourself from outside. Not well-groomed woman of very few people can interest therefore it is necessary to return itself former a visit of salon and shopping. In addition to it be not gloomy, rejoice to trifles.
- Be not persuasive. After the long relations it is often difficult, but it is necessary to sustain at least some time that the partner felt freedom. If are forced to resolve any issues by phone, then try not to call the first and in a conversation be constrained, quiet.
- You watch the appearance. The woman has to look always stylish, accurately, presentably.
- Focus on the merits. Emphasize all the advantages in appearance so that they were noticeable, but without platitude. You need to make of yourself candy, but not the readily available lady.
- Do not show jealousy. If your prince already found the new princess, do not show that you are jealous. Try to estimate and analyze a situation soberly. It is necessary to understand what attracted it in it or what you lose to it in.
- You hold an intrigue. Do not show former the desire to return everything. Let it know that you perfectly cope without it. And if you are surrounded still by nice successful men, then it will kindle in it jealousy more. Show that you comprehensively occupied person and if he returns to you, then will not be already that routine from which he ran. Here it is only very important not to let in him your new world. It is necessary bring closer, to alienate him that it had a desire again to achieve you.
If you could draw attention of being, return former interest in your person, and your relations reached the bedroom, then play a role of the mistress, but not wives. Always be in erotic linen, decorate the bedroom with aromatic candles, you carry out romantic dinners and continue to store an intrigue. When your relationship with the spouse, former or present, reached new level, it is possible to warm up them flirtation at distance.
It will be interesting to you to learn what to do to be pleasant to the man.
In it phones and the Internet will be the good assistant. It is possible to tempt with sms or during the ordinary conversation. For example, if the gentleman called you to learn, how are you doing, that can be thrown accidentally that you take a bath with foam or put on a stocking or other sexual part of clothes, or you only from a shower, and water drops from hair flow down on your body. The main thing — all your phrases should not be trite, and thrown kind of accidentally. If you decided to tempt the man on correspondence, then too it is not necessary to write at once platitudes. Begin with something unostentatious, for example, tell that you love him or report that had an erotic dream which it would be desirable to realize. Then add a phrase which means that you lack it now nearby.
Here examples of sms which can bring men:
- I keep thinking of you. So there is a wish that you were near now, concerned me and kissed gently.
- I so missed you that it seems, I catch your aroma in the apartment.
- I want to fall asleep, but I cannot. Having closed eyes, I see your tightened torso, and in the head platitudes begin to flash.
- I do not know whether to remove from myself your favourite chulochka or to go to bed in them? Perhaps you will arrive and will help me to make it?
Some couples, wishing to diversify the relations, try to have sex in the car.
We recommend to you to learn how to surprise the man in a bed.
That the woman could tempt successfully the partner in the car, she needs to look in a certain way:
- It is the best of all if you at this moment are dressed in a dress which can easily be taken off from you. Besides, it is desirable that it emphasized your waist and a bust, and was pass or to a knee. Plus will be if from a decollete your partner driver notices a bra corner.
- It is worth to remember also about linen. It has to be in tone to the main dress or red, black. The bra has to be removed easily. In addition to an image there can be stockings which dement most of men.
- The make-up and hairstyle are not less important. Try to do a natural make-up without defiant color of lipstick. It will only frighten off the gentleman. Color has to be gentle and seductive. Give preference to a free hairstyle with carelessly hanging down curls.
Having noticed that the man showed interest in you, begin to flirt with it, use all those features which can tempt your partner.
Councils of the sexopathologist
Psychotherapists and sexologists advise to adhere to such principles of seducing:
- Quite often men choose to themselves the companion of life, being guided by the principle: it is pleasant to me as I am pleasant to it. Therefore at detection of the nice man show that he is interesting to you. Approach, start talking, ask, smile. At the same time it is not necessary to hide eyes, to look away or at all to turn away. It is important to gentleman to see a spark in your eyes which will notify it on your readiness to join the game.
- Do not use trite features as sexual eating of banana or licking of brightly painted lips. It causes disgust in an opposite sex or is associated with a pornography not of the highest level as looks vulgarly. It is better to connect the natural coquetry: firing by eyes, the calling, languishing look, a mysterious smile. It is necessary to add periodic correction of curls with contact of the person to it.
- Be able to listen to the partner and to periodically praise him. In communication be cheerful, you joke, laugh and never remember problems, failures.
- Do not ignore courting of other gentlemen. Let your elect see that you are capable to win the male heart. The main thing at the same time is to let know to the elect that he interests you more than the others. Then its self-assessment will raise, and he with big eagerness will try to obtain you.
- Do not inhibit the desires and do not behave because of it it is reserved, held down. Be natural, free. Be not afraid of tactile contacts with the partner. Accidentally touch him, take by hand or under a hand, lean on it, especially when you need very it. At tactile contact there will be an exchange of power, and your desires will be transferred to the partner.
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Seducing of the husband — science not difficult. Each woman can seize it. The main thing is to believe in itself, in the appeal, sexuality, and then the present husband will not want to look at others, and former will wish to return as soon as possible.