To live with the alcoholic husband incredibly difficult. If despite all efforts you do not manage to bring to reason the spouse, think of leaving him. For this purpose it is necessary to be adjusted and think of the future well.
Instruction
1. Reconcile to what it is already impossible to force to stop drinking your husband. Be not one of those wives who continue to live with alcoholics, to the last keeping hope that the husband finally will see reason. Besides, the role is played by pity to once darling. Even if to consider alcoholism a disease, and the alcoholic – the sick person, it is necessary to remember that the person who does not want to be treated and does not put in anything you, does not deserve any sympathy.
2. Think of your future as far as it will change as soon as you throw the husband. At you will be much less stressful situations, you will be able to take care of the own life, to spend more time with those people who are really dear to you. Perhaps, you will be able even to find new love and to construct family life of which dreamed long ago.
3. Talk to the husband when he is in a sober state, and introduce to it all your ideas. Report about the decision, remember all situations when you had to worry because of it, It will be, etc. good to sacrifice the personal time if he realizes that he all this time only made the life of you miserable.
4. Issue a divorce. If the man refuses it, threaten him with something. After that try to address his relatives that those helped to find to the ex-husband new housing.
5. Stop to communicate with the former spouse as soon as he leaves your house. Change your phone number, put the new lock on a door. Not only you have to reconcile to parting, but also the man who can suddenly think again and want to return back. Do not give to it such reason. It must be kept in mindIt must be kept in mind that if he ceases to drink and at least year will patiently expect your forgiveness, think of giving the man a new chance if at heart all of you still love it.