The affair with the married man only first can seem the fairy tale. Gradually reaches the mistress of such person that he will not desert family for the sake of it, and to it the unenviable fate to be on the second or even on the tenth roles in his life is prepared.
It is required to you
- If you decided to leave the married lover, hard fight with itself is necessary to you. You should defeat yourself the girl, "unworthy love and adoration".
Instruction
1. Understand how you fell a victim of the affair with the married person. There are women who since the childhood do not believe that they can be loved. For example, such lady can consider herself too thick, too silly or too ugly. Married men have a special scent on such losers, they can be fooled long. And even if externally mistress looks faultlessly, quite often it has in soul a sea of complexes on which her man burdened with family skillfully plays.
2. Find ways to lift the self-assessment. Love triangles consciously join only women with the lowered self-assessment. And the novel "for three" kills this self-assessment finally. It is possible to lift it, working with the psychologist. Or having created for a while the environment so that in it there were only those who affect you voodushevlyayushche. Without psychologist you need half a year-year of a hothouse environment that though to restore a little self-confidence.
3. Put a question point-blank. You, as well as any woman, have the right for personal happiness. Also there are situations when family. If it remains with the wife, it will be simpler to you to remain one to have an opportunity to build the private life as you want that.