It is bad to lie - it is a statement in most of whichmost of which of people trusts. Here only in life often there are events for any of several reasons forcing to tell a lie. They force to think of in what measure the lie is disgusting and how to arrive, directly having faced it.
Instruction
1. Decide how crucially you treat a lie. Think over various life situations. Sometimes any events force to resort to so-called "white lie". For example, often try not to speak to children about the death of close people. The reasons on that set, and one of them: to save them from pain of loss, a grief, tears. Purpose, of course, noble. But for its achievement the obvious distortion of the truth, i.e. a lie is used. Or, for example, sometimes the person does not want to talk about the problems, and therefore deceives the family and friends, saying that he's fine. It turns out that the lie is not always awful, and in certain cases it even brings benefit. It is just necessary to understand: there is a lie which, really, it is impossible to forgive, and is - which it is possible to explain, understand and close eyes to it. And each person creates that side for which it is forbidden to cross for himself personally, leaning on a set of factors.
2. Do not take on trust everything that you are told. Some people are inclined to draw hasty conclusions, without penetrating into a key part of the problem. If you are sure of someone's lie, then first of all talk to responsible. It is possible that after such conversation you will look at circumstances on the other hand. The main thing, do not give in to emotions and do not do anything in a temper.
3. Be attentive to trifles. For a lie - a way of life. Such people lie almost continually, and get confused in details. Someone calls similar persons visionaries, someone differently... But the fact remains, if you quite often catch someone on petty lies, then the probability of that is high, as in serious business of people will not tell the truth. Such lie it is hardly worth treating, as something important. Just mark out for yourself those who obviously do not need to trust.
4. Do not forget that you, for certain, not an angel. Most likely, and to you sometimes it was necessary to face the choice: to lie or tell the truth. And it is possible that you were inclined towards the first. So, before "to throw lightnings", being in righteous anger from the revealed deception, "try on" a situation better "on yourself". Perhaps, you would also want to avoid the truth and would prefer to tell lies in a similar situation.