It is considered to be that women and men – people from different planets. Actually between them it is much bigger the general, than can seem at first sight – enough only to try to understand the partner of an opposite sex. To reach mutual understanding with the man if you the woman, it is not difficult at all – for this purpose it is necessary to want to create the harmonious relations and to conform to some rules.
Instruction
1. Avoid disputes. There is no more senseless occupation, than to argue with the man and to convince him that he is not right even if he is really not right. Most of men painfully react to situations in which the woman calls into question their male authority and leadership on family. Therefore your task is to help the man to find self-confidence and also that you respect him and recognize his leadership and correctness.
2. Do not tire the man with excessive quantity of requests if they do not concern something important. If you pull the man on any trifle, be not surprised that you cannot reach mutual understanding. Perform independently those operations which do not demand great efforts, and the man ask to perform difficult and laborious work – he with pleasure will agree to help you that you are incapable to make with own hands.
3. To you it is necessary not only to respect wisdom of the man, but also to be a wise woman – be tactful, know what can be done and what is impossible and also try to influence the man when he is in very good mood or on the contrary, demands your support and the help a difficult minute. You should not demand something from the hungry and tired man – previously let's it have a rest and feed him with a dinner.
4. Create in your family the atmosphere of mutual trust, but despite this, you judge the man on his acts, but not by words. The fact that he does, says about its character much more, than about what he tells you.
5. Be for the man womanly and attractive – even then when about something you ask him. Your requests have to be veiled behind a mask of flirtation or coquetry. Communicate with the man tenderly, and he will reciprocate to you.
6. Accept the partner it what he is actually. Do not set the task to change him – any man will not be glad if he learns that it is wanted to be changed for own convenience.
7. Communicate with each other and learn about each other as much as possible – it will allow you to become closer and to understand each other. From time to time try to see things from the man's position, get up on his place, try to present yourself to its roles to approach his mentality, so to reach the best understanding. And at last, do not deceive the man – be with him extremely sincerely not to break the trust created between you.