Treason of the loved one – sick blow to the ego, but sometimes on a course of life obstacles which need to be overcome meet. To refuse guilty or to give a chance to be rehabilitated – your right. Many women, despite of difficulties, agree to show worldly wisdom and to go to a lot of things for the sake of preservation of family.
1. Become for the husband the loyal friend and the irreplaceable adviser. Believe, the people who are regularly criticizing others actions do not cause sympathy. The goodhearted relation and sincere participation, genuine interest in affairs and hobbies of the spouse, will ennoble you in his eyes and will return former interest.
2. Marriage – not an occasion to cease to look after itself as before. Remain attractive to the partner in life, do not dare to appear in a negligent look. Do not forget about the easy make-up emphasizing a female charm. You have to be pleasant to yourself that the loved one could appreciate you.
3. Do not try to show too obviously that you it is better than the alleged competitor, let the husband will arrive at this idea independently. Do not impose the society, do not try to be engaged in shadowing or to put ultimatums, it you do much harm to yourself more likely. Do not fall to meannesses even for the sake of marriage preservation, no fight does cost to lose in it itself.
4. Create houses the cozy atmosphere to which it is pleasant to return every day. You will analyze the behavior, reveal, than it promoted cooling of your relationship, and try to influence a situation in return.
5. If you forgave treason, do not return to this question and do not reproach the husband with former offense. Sense of guilt will be replaced by irritation and disappointment if you manipulate the spouse thus. Similar memoirs will not bring positive emotions in marriage and will not inhale in it new force. Therefore it is worth leaving them behind if you made the decision to start everything with a clean slate.