For any normal woman to learn that the husband has a mistress – a heavy shock. The deceived spouse survives the whole storm of feelings: burning offense, rage, desire to revenge both the mistress, and the husband. It is clear and natural, there will hardly be a girl who will apprehend treason with cool tranquility.
Instruction
1. If you learned that your husband has a mistress, try to appease emotions at first. It is not necessary to arrange a hysterics, scandal. Sit down and quietly think: whether you want to keep family? Often, despite offense, the woman still loves the spouse and the matrimony does not want to pull down.
2. Do not resort to the help of various "sorcerers", "hereditary magicians" and the other charlatans promising an absolute guarantee of a top or aiming of damage at a razluchnitsa at all. Remember that you simply will throw out money to burn.
3. Overcome desire to deal physically with the husband's mistress even if inside everything bubbles from indignation, and hands and itch "to teach a good lesson this creep". Do not fall before insults to a razluchnitsa, do not humiliate yourself in her eyes and furthermore in the opinion of the husband! Be a wise woman.
4. In the same way it is not necessary to revenge the spouse's mistress in more sophisticated ways. For example, to distribute information discrediting her, especially among her family, close familiar. Especially do not keep ringing to it, do not threaten. In most cases it will lead only to a bigger cooling of the husband and his distance from you.
5. You do not press on pity, trying to explain to it as badly and unworthy it arrives, taking away the married man from family. At best, the mistress will be confused, will even test certain a remorse. Remember that she can laugh at you with a mischievous celebration.
6. Try to become for the spouse the best, favourite, beautiful and desired woman on light again. For this purpose attentively look narrowly at the mistress, and objectively. Use the best efforts to find the answer to a question: "What did it find in it it I do not have that?" Also act depending on the answer. It can become necessary for you a little more tender, more sexual. You remember: family happiness in your hands.