Pregnancy – hard test not only for the woman who is going to become mother but also for her spouse. Many husbands even loving, attentive and careful, complain that their pregnant wives became just intolerable! Continuous differences of mood, scandals, crying. Itself does not know what wants, the husband overdrove. Wives, respectively, state a heap of claims to husbands.
Instruction
1. Each to the husband pregnant woman women should know and understand: in an organism of his darling there is very strong hormonal "shake-up" now. Because of it there are both differences of mood of the wife, and scandals, and tears. The woman is not guilty of it. To reproach her with hysteria, with egoism, - all the same that to reproach the chest baby who cries and prevents to sleep to parents.
2. Some husbands resort to such arguments: "But she when was a pregnant woman, so did not behave! That in my wife as if the demon was installed!" Yes, it is valid, women who quite easily transfer interesting situation, including that hormonal shake-up meet. But it after all the exception, but did not govern. So be glad for husbands of those women, and understand own spouse. After all, she became such because bears your child!
3. Tolerance, sympathy, the help, - here that now is required from the husband of the pregnant woman. He has to show both mind, and generosity. Jeunet badly, so should be helped and supported by her, but not to reproach and re-educate. Especially as the attempt of re-education with the probability of 99% will lead only to stronger tears and reproaches.
4. Quite often there are cases when pregnant women literally do not release from themselves husbands. They want that the beloved was always near. In that case, how the husband loved fishing, mushroom hunting, work at the dacha and other types of active holiday and also a meeting with friends, it is better for it to meet requirements of the wife. And, certainly, not to grumble, not to reproach her with egoism! Instead the thicket should repeat that it is near that she has nothing to be afraid that everything will be good.
5. The husband should take all possible measures that the pregnant woman was not exposed to excessive loadings, especially to risk and also received sufficient and various nutrition. Now in literal sense it is necessary future mother "is for two!" Undertake at least a part of house efforts, see off and meet the wife from work.
6. Well, and if whims and differences of mood of the pregnant woman became absolutely intolerable, the husband needs only to be consoled in a thought that pregnancy is not forever. Having returned from maternity hospital with the peeping parcel on hands, the wife will become same as before.