What can be more sick than treason of darling? It as if the unexpected and verified blow in a solar plexus when everything before eyes floats, and it is not necessary to say forces even a sound. But how to be if the relations after the incident need to be kept? How again to learn to trust?
Instruction
1. For a start it is necessary to understand himself. To listen and understand whether you are capable to forgive the person who changed to you. Not to pretend that forgave. Not to start up back in family, constantly reproaching and releasing venomous hints. And really to forgive.
2. Further it is necessary to find out the treason reasons. Here it is important to assess a situation adequately. Long ago not a secret that both persons are guilty of the broken relations usually. Therefore try to understand what you made not so that is not enough for darling in you, in your relations. But without self-flagellation. Often seven just eats life, and therefore someone from spouses sometimes tries to distract, be forgotten. Sadly, if treason – the only way of the solution of this problem.
3. Become more attentive to each other. Let well alone. It is unlikely your partner was satiated with ideal life - most likely he lacked something. Give him it. Try to return romanticism to your relations.
4. Of course, all this will be difficult to be made alone. Besides the woman who did not forget the pain yet. Therefore the changed party, in turn, if too wants to keep family, has to make so that for some time her life became the open book for the partner. The stumbled person has the right for forgiveness, but he has to manage to discuss current situation so many time how many it will be necessary for the deceived party.
5. To forgive the person, without having beared malice, you can use the meditation and yoga capable to present to soul peace. There are many options of such rituals which can be accompanied with an aromatherapy and pleasant music.
6. But the most important, try to become the self-sufficient personality. It is much easier to live when at your life there is a set of interesting occupations, people, things when every day it is eventful. If the whole world is concentrated on the relations, then strokes of bad luck are transferred heavier.
7. To understand and forgive much more difficult, than to tear off the relations, without having understood the event. To try to find out a situation is much more painful, than to hide the head in sand and to wait when everything passes. And still there are relations which stand forgiveness and new life.