Any relations are not only benefit, but also certain victims on which both halves should go. And that the relations were successful and were under construction on love, each of partners has to understand it and not try to reduce quantity of the duties. That it was easier for couple to understand each other, it is necessary to follow the following things regularly.
Instruction
1. You learn to listen to each other. Quite often all problems of couple are that one of partners or at the same time both consider that there are only two points of view - their and wrong. It does not allow to hear the partner that causes negative reactions and consequences.
2. Do not interrupt in the partner's conversation. Many people, when they are interrupted, consider themselves offended and perceive this action as the sign of disrespect. Even if you would like to stop the person as already understood that he wants to tell, nevertheless you should not do it. Just let's it finish speaking not to create excess problems for all.
3. Be not afraid of each other. One more pronounced feature of many couples is a certain fear and even constraint before with each other. It can be expressed in fear to go against, being afraid to lose the person or in constraint to be near the person when you feel that not really today you look good. Understanding begins with trust. Therefore if you do not trust each other and are afraid to lose the partner because of insignificant disagreements, you or underestimate the half, or perhaps half underestimates you.
4. Go on the victims. Both for an order, and for understanding in the relations it is necessary to pay rather high price. It can be both your time, and refusal of habitual things, a break of your arrogance or something else. You only should remember that in reply you get appreciation, support and love. If such exchange really interests you, so do everything possible to agree on all issues with your partner and to come to a compromise.