The feeling of love comes suddenly - it as if covers with the head. Darling seems ideal, the best in the world. And with him are ready to live all the life and never to be separated. But not any feeling of love is durable, is frequent to it the usual affection for the person comes to replacement.
Instruction
1. How to understand the feelings and to understand whether you love or you live with each other at the expense of a strong habit? At first it is worth finding out why to you such thoughts came to mind, for certain something began not to suit you in the relations. And it is clear, after a while joint life the passion becomes dull, there is no novelty of emotions therefore the relations become rather quiet and monotonous. It can cause boredom and thoughts that the love passed long ago. And whether it is worth living then together?
2. Do not draw hasty conclusions. The fact that you do not feel every minute flashes passion now as in those days when you began to meet is a natural phenomenon. But does not mean yet that the love passed. Just your feeling moved to new, more mature level. It is necessary to be able to keep it.
3. Psychologists mark out several signs of the family relations on which it is possible to understand whether you love still each other or live attachment. Your partner is not ideal, but you with him are happy. For example, you always dreamed of the elect athlete and the activist, and married the homebody who spends free time behind reading magazines and books. When there takes place the first emotional recession of your feelings, you begin to estimate soberly the partner, to clearly see all his shortcomings and habits which did not notice in the period of passionate love. Here in it it is a high time it is worth solving for himself whether you will be able to live with the beloved shortcomings. And not to get on and suffer, and to live happily and quietly, accepting the person it what it is.
4. You feel confident and is comfortable with the person. You are not guarded that now you do not walk the whole nights, and the husband does not get to you into the bedroom through an open window. You understand that the married couple has other pleasures. You are happy that darling, returning from work, does not forget to buy you your favourite cookies that you fall asleep every night at it on a shoulder. Of course, and in matrimonial life there is a place unusual impressions and to emotions. Everything depends on you and on your imagination. You should not think that family life boring and monotonous. Just you love and appreciate the elect even if he does not arrange for you daily grandiose entertainments.
5. to kill even the most strong feelings. If spouses really love each other, they will try to look for compromises in disputable situations.
6. The love gives to self-confidence. Having reliable, loving ""back"", you can conquer all peaks, new and new to yourself. Support of darling is what gives us forces, inspires confidence in tomorrow.
7. Speaking about love, It is necessary to tellIt is necessary to tell several words and about a habit. Whether so the situation when you understand that there is no love any more is hopeless, there was only an attachment? Very often happens so that the love passes, people quickly leave and forget about each other. And here the person to whom got used to release happens very difficult. A habit - terrible force. Therefore before pulling down the relations, think whether your habit only is other form of love.