Misunderstanding by the woman of the man is one of the frequent causes of difficulties in development and maintenance of the relations. To eliminate this misunderstanding, it is necessary to understand difference between psychology of the woman and psychology of the man. And then to build communication taking into account these distinctions.
Often the woman cannot understand the man because of features of thinking and features of communication following from them. Women's communication has a considerable emotional component. In a conversation she wants to express the feelings, views, feelings, to show the attitude to something. Men's communication is based on logic, on the facts, on exchange of the necessary information. For this reason when the woman wants to be uttered before the man, in reply she receives silence or misunderstanding.
You do not ask from it councils or the ready solution of your problem. In this case the man will go to thoughts and reflections. If you just ask to keep up the conversation, it just will begin to communicate with you, without going deep into thoughts.
Many men do not understand hints and allegories. Therefore state the desires without any fogs and half-words. If you want something sweet, ask it to buy so and so. So that he clearly understood what from it is wanted. Undoubtedly, it is necessary to politely ask and it is soft, tender tone. The same concerns all aspects of your relations, your joint life, life, etc. Do not think that the man himself will guess your desires. You speak directly what you want.
Men are not emotional
Do not take offense at the man if he does not speak every day about your appeal. Many men are brought up constrained and got used to constrain emotions. Even if they overflow them. Do not take offense if the man did not notice your new dress, your new hairstyle. Pay its attention to changes in appearance and ask how it is pleasant to it. And especially do not become hysterical if the answer of the man is truthful and he will criticize you.
You do not lead the man in a string. Do not control him constantly: where he went where spent spare cash why acted this way, but not differently. The lead will be shorter, the desire to get rid of it is stronger.
Certain freedom of action and movements, freedom to independently make decisions, freedom most is necessary for men to dispose of some money.
When men are silent
Do not take offense if the man long time is silent and does not pay attention to you. As well as to any person, he periodically wants to remain alone with the thoughts. As a rule, if the woman long is silent, then most likely she took offense. The man can be silent, being quite satisfied with life and being in good mood. Believe if you give it rest when it is necessary, after a while he will come to you.