Meeting with each other, young people sometimes think of how their feelings will be long. The sincere love often accompanies people all further life, and here the usual attachment and sympathy comes to an end sooner or later.
Instruction
1. To understand whether forever your feelings or not, for a start you need to learn to divide such concepts as "love" and "love". In the most common understanding, the love is desire to make other person happy. The loving guy or the girl will make everything that subject to its lamentation near it was happy. To learn to love, it is necessary to know tastes, preferences, desires and aspirations of the elect. For this purpose you spend more time with each other, you share the experiences, make plans for the future. It will help you to know the soulmate better. Sometimes from someone it is possible to hear a phrase: "I love it because it clever". Kind of did not sound strange, but you love the person not for something, and contrary to everything. The loving person cannot give the exact answer to a question of for what he has feelings to the elect. He loves in him all: appearance, constitution and even shortcomings of character.
2. Learn to talk to the partner. You share all experiences. And even if something does not suit you, it is necessary to tell about it quiet tone. It is not less important to learn to listen and hear the person. Laugh when to you it is joyful, cry when it is sad. Remember, in any relations the sincerity is important. Any relations sometimes experience certain difficulties. Usually it is connected with the beginning of joint life, the child's birth. Of course, time, anyway, changes people. The main thing during this period not to lose itself. Having passed all difficulties and having kept the relations, you will become the present command.
3. Love consists in absolutely other attitude towards the person. Near it you feel inspired, you want to spend constantly time together, but you have at the same time the only desire: all your undertakings, manifestations of care and caress have to be exclusively mutual. If there is no reciprocity, withdrawal pains, experiences, sufferings and attempts to replace the person to whom you are not necessary, someone to others who will appreciate more you and your care begin. Love quickly lights up and quickly passes therefore such feelings cannot be eternal.
4. If you understand what all are ready to do for the person gratuitously, worry about whether he is full, whether it is dressed, whether it is healthy, and, to you is not important at all, near you he or not, you just worry about his health, are interested in his experiences and are even ready to release to other person, if only was happy, it is sincere and most true love which does not pass over time. Yes, if you are not together with a subject of the adoration, you will be able further to begin to meet someone, but you will hardly be able to love someone. Your thoughts will always return to the same representative of an opposite sex, but only at the thought that he is alive, healthy, and he's fine, you will be quiet.