When you meet the girl or you invite her to an appointment, there is a wish to impress her, to summon at her sympathy. And then there is a question: how to make it? What does she want also what is pleasant to it?
What girls are?
Girls are ordinary people with the thoughts, feelings, requirements, plans and the purposes. Girls, as well as at guys, have a life experience behind shoulders, beliefs, ideas of what is correct and that is not present. The behavior of the girl the same as behavior of any person, has the reasons, the reasons.
All people different. On the planet it is impossible to find two absolutely identical people. Also and girls. Each girl has interests, preferences, desires.
It is pleasant to someone from girls pink and in hearts. Other girl likes ultrashort hairstyles, black lipstick and punk prikid. There are girls who love weapon and dogs; and happen also such who likes jewelry, stockings and candies; there are girls who like to read, write and write verses; others like mountaineering and conquest of mountain tops.
What is wanted by girls?
What is wanted by the specific girl, depends on her addictions. However there are universal rules of conduct which are easily applied both to girls, and to guys, and to people of advanced age. For example,
- it is pleasant to nobody when take them to a thing without demand,
- nobody would like to listen to insults in the address or to the relatives,
- it is pleasant to most of people when to them smile and belong with attention (for example, ask, ""How was your day?" "or" "In what you mood?), etc.
In general girls, as well as all people, want the valid, attentive relation to themselves. If there are doubts whether something will be pleasant to the girl, try to ask a question: ""And the guy would like it? My sister would like it? And to my mother or my grandfather?"" - and you will understand what you should not do in relation to the girl on an appointment or at a casual meeting in public places.
How to learn that is wanted by the girl?
The most obvious, easy and fast way to learn that is wanted by the girl, is to ask her about it. On the direct question ""What Do You Want?"" happens not easy to answer. Therefore it will be easier for the girl if
- the question prozuchit within a concrete subject (cinema, books, sex, entertainments, household chores, study, work, etc.);
- at first you will tell about the interests, and after that ask the girl about her: ""I love fighters and family comedies. And you?"";
- offer several options that the girl could choose (especially if she speaks ""I do not know"" or doubts the decision).
The second, more difficult way to learn that is wanted by the girl, is in making something (for example, to present her flowers, to walk her dog, to kiss on a neck, to make a lunch), and after to estimate reaction of the girl.
- Bright positive reaction is usually obvious. For example, the girl tells ""Thanks as cool!"", kisses on the answer, smiles, laughs, looks in the face, - means, your act pleased her, gave pleasure, and it is pleasant to her.
- Bright negative reaction is also usually obvious. If the girl pushes away you, is discharged, speaks directly ""Is not present, it is not pleasant to me" "or" "You in vain do it"", is an occasion to stop the actions. In this case it is possible to clear what the girl would like instead of your undesirable behavior. For example, to tell: ""Well, you did not want me to walk your dog. But how I still can help you?" "or" "I am sorry that you did not like a kiss. It is possible to take you by a hand or to embrace?""
It is more difficult to estimate reaction of the girl when it is uncertain: the girl does not speak ""no"", but at the same time and does not show signs of joy or pleasure. For example, is silent, avoids to look in the face if smiles, then her smile is tense, unnatural, a pose intense. In this case it is obvious that the girl did not like your actions, but she is afraid to refuse to you (for example, does not want to offend). The best option in this case will be to stop your actions and to clear that went not so.
Anyway, to understand what is pleasant to the girl, do not hesitate to ask direct questions and to speak about the intentions, desires and feelings it is opened and is honest. Then the girl will have an opportunity to answer you: it suits the same, as to you, or not. And it, after all, the best way to find out what she wants actually.