Both the guy, and the girl in the relations strive for one goal – mutual understanding and love, only ways of their achievement at them disperse. What is pleasant to the guy can not suit the girl and vice versa. It is possible to determine by some simple signs precisely what the guy wants that he is pleasant to him and that is not pleasant absolutely.
Instruction
1. Try to put yourself on its place before making some act. Present that you are it. This simple reception will save you from rash acts which can push away the guy from you subsequently. If something is not pleasant to you, then it too, most likely, will not give it pleasure. It is only necessary to consider that tastes at all different.
2. Talk to the guy. Take an interest whether that is pleasant to him, what are you doing, and as you do it. Try to find out its relation to your specific actions. Discuss all issues in a soft, unostentatious form. Remember that you should not react sharply to its phrases or take offense without the reason, otherwise the conversation will come to a standstill, and at the guy the desire to talk not to allow repetition of similar reaction will be gone further.
3. Listen to his words. Be not selfish, to the guy it is important that to him listened. Listen carefully to him very much and learn to draw conclusions to understand what he wants. Listen to his point of view on various issues and in various situations, and try not to do what is not pleasant to him.
4. If the guy approved your any act and told that it was pleasant to it – means, it can be repeated. If kept silent or did not approve – draw right conclusions and try not to repeat it any more. If he does not express obviously the opinion – better to specify it to avoid misunderstanding. If in the daily actions to consider these four simple rules, it is possible easily to learn to understand that is wanted by the guy.