In family life with a certain frequency there are crises, and some of them strengthen the union, and others – finally loosen it. It is difficult to understand a usual course of life at once, momentary it is problems or serious. Not to make a mistake, once you understand, to understand that it is time to get divorced.
When it is worth working on the relations?
Break with the loved one – it is always heavy. And the gap after the wedding is difficult doubly, the considerable way is together passable. The most important – is obligatory to weigh everything. If you find in the union something from this list, it is worth trying to solve a problem, but not to leave from it:
- If you already had similar difficulties in the relations, and you found a way to defeat them, that is hope, as this time everything is not so bad.
- If all of you still feel that all of you miss the spouse, love her, reach for her – the divorce will be not the best decision for both of you.
- If you have children – ten times think before presenting them a fate of incomplete family with all its deprivations and not always a healthy microclimate.
In this case it is better to address the personal or family psychologist and to try to understand what prevents your family to be happy.
When it is time to get divorced from wife?
However there are also such situations when it is not possible to stick together the broken bowl any more. To understand when it is time to get divorced, you will be able on such signs:
- you cause each other only irritation;
- there is too much old offenses that it was possible to cope with them;
- one of you has serious relations on the party long ago;
- already a year in your family life is not present anything positive;
- none of you are ready to concede in the solution of sharply standing questions.
It should be taken into account one more factor – if you doubt at least for a second that you need a divorce it means that emotionally you are not ready to it. It has to be not the momentary decision. Anyway before decision-making initiate a conversation which will help you to understand better an essence of family problems, and only after that make the decision.
We suggest to get acquainted with eight most common causes of a divorce below.