People meet, people fall in love, people … not always marry. Because there is a wish to connect the life with the one who is foreordained by the destiny, but not with the one who is in it a passerby. Only how not to make the worthy wrong choice of the half? Whether it is possible that the former schoolmate with whom you stayed behind one school desk all ten classes, and happened several years later after leaving school — and is your destiny? And maybe, you should look narrowly at the colleague who already several times invited you to a dinner?
Instruction
1. Pay attention to appearance of the applicant for a role of your promised. The man is not obliged to put on in the latest fashion at all, but his shape has to be harmonious and is pleasant to you.
2. See to its manners: it is not necessary to demand knowledge of royal etiquette from the man at all, but his elementary politeness in a conversation, ability to open a door before the woman and to offer it a hand, helping to be kicked downstairs, is a good sign.
3. Estimate his desire and ability to care for you. If the person on the first call with a request for the help postpones all affairs and where it was, rushes to you, then it allows to make the assumption that near it you will always feel protected.
4. Look narrowly as he behaves with children. It is indicative whether he avoids kids as mischief whether he tries to avoid whenever possible with them contact even if in the house where you are invited on a visit, it is full of kids. Or treats children's fuss calmly around, with interest watches children and can even join in their game. The second option, of course, is more preferable for this purpose with whom you are going to build the future family.
5. Listen as he speaks about the mother. If quietly and validly speaks of her, without expressing you the delights about her any abilities and achievements, for example, in cookery or needlework, education of children or in work, then before you the taken place adult without complexes, actually, once again the one who is necessary. But if the man continually, at the slightest pretext likes to insert: "And here my mother …" with the list of all of her applied advantages, run from it carelessly as all of you equally will never take in his life the place more important, than his mother.
6. Estimate its opportunity to provide you normal living conditions. This is not aboutThis is not aboutThis is not about huge bank accounts, and about ability and, the main thing, desire of the man to work for the sake of the benefit of the family.
7. Listen to the heart now. Even if on all above-mentioned indicators the man can apply for your hand, but heart at the same time is silent, then you should not make quick decisions …