Flirtation, love and love is different phases of the same feeling. At all times lovers had doubts in reciprocity of darling. In this article we will consider by what signs it is possible to determine that the girl is loved by the specific man and how to be convinced that she also really loves him.
Guys and girls not only physically develop differently — they have a different emotionality and also there are gender differences of vision of the relations in couple. The purpose of the union — same, but young people communicate and speak absolutely different languages of love. The main problem in many respects is that ladies often do not know what they actually want the man.
The ideal relations for the guy are when he can feel as the man and to be a man. He wants to feel recognition of the advantages, respect and the value. Men usually play the leading role in couple therefore for a strong half the ideal woman is that who can be trusted and which completely trusts it.
The man does not find anything more sexual and attractive, than the happy woman who on advantage appreciates all that she becomes for her. It is very important key in relations between the sexes.
Whether you know? Definition of a butterfly in a stomach is almost real as when the person is in love, the released endorphins really create the tickling feelings in a stomach.
Men like to give, but from their misunderstanding of what really want the woman, there is a majority of problems in the relations. It happens because of violation of bases of communication as women often incorrectly tell men that it is necessary for them.
Men just as the fair sex, need that they were praised, appreciated and loved. For ladies often sex — on the second plan, but at men is the main and very important component of the relations, and only those couples in which a lot of attention is paid to sex will be harmonious.
It is known that for love there are no age obstacles, and both the young boy, and the mature man aged is capable to fall in love. People can meet the love anywhere: in transport, on vacation, on study or among fellow workers. When couple begins to meet, the woman often there is a wish to understand whether there is in these relations a prospect, whether the man loves it. And if he never speaks directly about the feelings, the girl needs to pay attention to some signs indicating the guy's attitude towards her. It is impossible to neglect important points in communication, having estimated which, it is possible to understand whether really the man is in love with you. There is a set of the gestures, behavioural reactions, phrases and words which are hints of which it is impossible to lose sight.
Whether you know? It is considered that the man who kisses at least 5 minutes a day lives for 5 years longer than the peers who are not doing it.
The rose and candy stage is not only most beautiful and romantic phase of the relations, but also and time when people ask each other a set of questions, speak about everything, analyze behavior of each other to understand whether really they are important for the partner.
It is especially important to estimate correctly reality if the partner is avaricious on love recognitions. Signs of love, even small and insignificant, help the woman to feel confidence that it is loved.
When the guy is in love, he tries to make everything to spend time together, maybe, will even organize pleasant surprises. If instead it turns out that he often is late for meetings or cancels an appointment at the last moment, then it can mean that the young man not too values these relations. In case there was a cancellation of an appointment owing to circumstances, the man has to show, at least, the interest in a fast meeting with a subject of the passion.
To see the girlfriend only once in a week, without having obstacles for more frequent meetings, is sign that the man is cold to her. Lovers want to be next to each other as often as possible if perhaps — every day, and ideally — every minute.
It is also very important to watch language of a body of the partner — it can disclose much less obvious information which is unambiguously showing that he fell in love.
Whether you know? The broken heart — not a just familiar expression. When people suffer from love, they can really feel the pain and weight in a breast very similar to feelings at a heart attack.
There is a lot of signs of interest of the man in the woman:
- Smile — the man is always inclined to smile to what is told by the woman who interested him to show as far as he appreciates her company.
- View of lips. Talking to the girl, it usually watches the movement of her lips, and takes away a look aside when realizes that its interest is found.
- Search of common interests. The man will try to find a common ground among themselves and the lady who interests him, accenting and emphasizing general views or tastes — for example, on movies, music or vacation spots.
- Desire to spend time together. For this purpose the man thinks out various reasons for meetings (visit of cafe, shopping, a business meeting, departure on the nature). Seeking to spend much time with the woman who interests him, at the same time he tries to transfer nodding acquaintance to closer.
- His look will always be bright and not missing. The attention of the guy will be difficult to distract from the girl who interests him.
- During the conversation with the girl interesting it the guy often inclines the head. It will constantly change a pose even if sits (that is sign of nervousness), trying to accept especially attractive or emphasizing his courage of a pose.
- The interested man often gesticulates to emphasize the speech, and is inclined to hold palms opened that is sign of openness in relation to the woman who is before it.
If the man calls the lady several times during the day because he just wants to hear her voice, to learn how she feels and what is engaged at present in — that he is really interested. Of course, there are closed or constraining people who force themselves to call as seldom as possible, being afraid to bother the girlfriend therefore it is impossible to hurry with conclusions. However if the guy calls once a week for a long time and toils with boredom, without knowing about what to speak with the girl — means, for certain its feelings to it are not really strong.
When couple together, the woman has to pay attention to the relation of the man to it: if he is ready to listen, takes care and interest in its affairs, tries to touch gently a hand or a cheek, his eyes most often stop on the girlfriend — that he is really in love.
If the man well remembers important dates (day of acquaintance, a birthday of the girl) and arranges small surprises these days to make it day is better, is an unambiguous sign that it means to it much.
It is important! If at couple such relationship at which each of partners not only takes, but also gives, are created — it for certain means that their feelings develop in the right direction.
The partner tries to agree to any initiative of the lady and follows it there where she wants. And still, if the woman is mutually interested in the man, she should follow also desire of the man — for example, to provide to it to solve, where to spend evening, where to go.
One more signal which needs to be meant: when the man in love leaves on a meeting with friends, he for certain for the evening will call or at least will send several Sms that the girlfriend did not feel thrown and deprived of its attention and also to be convinced that is with it everything is all right.
The lover wishes to make plans for the future with the girl. When the lover begins to use a pronoun we, speaking about the projects, it can become one more important sign that he really loves the partner.
Important! It is important to Paré to laugh together: if after unlucky day the lovers manage to encourage each other, forcing to laugh, is a good sign. Sometimes it is enough of one, clear only two jokes to create the atmosphere of a unification.
In this case he obviously feels a part of couple, speaks about further joint life with confidence, in detail planning where and what will be the general house. It means that in the future he defines the important place for this woman and feels that is ready to joint life.
When the young man wants to be with the girl, he will not be confused or ashamed of the fact that people around see them together. When he decides to acquaint the girlfriend with friends and family, it is the important sign meaning that he cares for her.
In the love and confident man in the feelings is not afraid to represent the beloved because he is happy in the relations and wants to share them with the most important people in his life. But if the dear friend does not want it to do long time, it is worth accepting it as an alarm signal: perhaps, the man is not confident in the feelings, or avoids long-term obligations, and it has to set the woman thinking.
The love is always fine feeling, however the meaning of love is not identical to all people. When the girl is not sure whether she loves the guy, she should answering herself some questions.
- It seems that the best way to force to disappear all problems is to see loved and to tell about everything. He is capable to correct the worst day, having just looked at you.
- You never cease to want to be with it, it is not influenced even by quarrels. Understanding comes that contrast of love is not hatred, but indifference.
- Desire is constant to see and hear it. Any conversation with it, even on nothing not meaning subject, becomes pleasant, important and necessary.
- Perhaps it complicates your life as you live far as from each other or both are too busy. But it does not become an obstacle for appointments.
- You very much want the general future and, perhaps, the children similar to darling. Everything that occurs in your life, is anyway connected with this person.
It will be interesting to you to learn how to distinguish love from love.
The love inspires and gives to people force for conquest of new tops in business, art, sport and other important industries of human life, gives new meaning of life.
To the woman wishing to be convinced that the man does not trifle with with her affections, and really loves, it is worth paying attention to his behavior, nonverbal signals of a male body and indirect signs of love.