If the man is not interested in the woman and she is not pleasant to him, it is noticeable by his behavior. It is necessary to look narrowly only attentively at the person and to objectively assess a situation.
When the woman meets the interesting man, she wants to know, what does he think of her, her sympathy is how mutual. Not all men are capable to make an avowal of sentiments frankly. Sometimes girls hesitate to ask questions because at initial stages of development of the relations it is not really convenient to ask the person about the most intimate. To understand everything, it is necessary to pay attention to behavior of the man. There are signs which indicate obvious lack of sympathy.
Constant employment
If the man does not look for meetings with the girl and refers at the same time to constant employment, most likely, it just is not pleasant to him. The person in love will always find time for communication with the darling. Even if there are any problems it is possible to cancel couple of appointments, but then everything has to get better. If the man does not want to speak by phone, refers to employment, promises to communicate, call back, but does not keep a promise, it is a bad omen. Such behavior obviously indicates lack of sympathy. In this case it is better to step aside and not to try to impose something, to prove, reproach. It is necessary just to release a situation and to give the chance to the man to think, to comprehend everything. If he understands that the girl is necessary to it, he will surely find time for a call and a meeting.
The man does not call the first
One more sign of lack of interest - the man never acts as the initiator of phone calls, meetings. He does not refuse to go on a date, but never calls, does not write the first. Most likely he has not a tender affection, but at the same time does not want to break off finally the relations to hold the girl about itself(himself) as spare option.
Indifference
If the woman is not pleasant to the man, he is always indifferent. It is shown both in serious acts, and in trifles. In this case to the person all the same, what about his companion that concerns her what she thinks of. Even if he also asks any questions, it looks very formally. It becomes clear that he not really is interested in answers.
The indifferent man is selfish. He does not try to adapt to the woman, to understand her, to support. If between them there are any relations, the purpose of their maintenance is the satisfaction of own requirements. When the man is not in love, he shows only an affection ""on duty"" and does it half-heartedly. If the man is not interested in the woman at the very beginning of the relations, you should not hope that everything will change. Over time the situation will only worsen therefore it is better good to consider everything and to decide whether such person to whom all the same is necessary as his companion will get home or whether conveniently to it to meet on other end of the city.
Indifference is expressed also in unwillingness to admit the guilt. If the man is in love, he is afraid to offend, upset the darling. When the person does not love, to him it is not important whether his companion will take offense or not. He does not hurry to apologize. An impression is sometimes made that the man specially tells unpleasant things to finish the relations which stopped being interesting.
Body language
Body language, look gives the true relation of the man. At the person in love the look changes. He looks at an object of the sympathy with tenderness and love that should be noticed. If the man likes the woman, he does not take eyes with it, wants to be constantly nearby. On an appointment he sits down closer to the darling, with pleasure takes her by hand, embraces, kisses.
If the girl is not pleasant, men, as a rule, avoid close contact. They keep aloof, often are distracted by the solution of some foreign problems. It is possible to carry out the simple test and to estimate whether is at the person of feeling, whether he wants to be near. On an appointment it is necessary to try to approach it as much as possible. If the man takes a step back, will try to laugh the matter off and will start a conversation on an abstract subject, the companion is not interesting to it.
Boring appointments
When the girl really is pleasant, the man waits for another meeting with it. Communication gives him pleasure, joy.
If appointments take place very boringly, the young man behaves too frostily, constantly is distracted by phone calls or in general seeks to leave restaurant or cafe as soon as possible, it is necessary to draw conclusions.