Sometimes men cannot correctly interpret signals which girls use to let them know the favorable relation. As women are quite mysterious beings, their affability can sometimes mean simple politeness, and sometimes – interest. As to understand, the girl like you or not?
Sympathy or nervousness?
If you cannot define the girl's attitude towards yourself, for a start start with her a noncommittal conversation. She will help you to understand more precisely that the girl feels when you speak with it – track her reaction to your words whether she smiles, whether laughs in response to your jokes. It will become the first step on the way to establishment of contact between you.
Important point is the behavior of the girl during the conversation – if she does up hair or looks in a pocket mirror, so she wants to be pleasant to you.
If at communication it becomes clear, but the interests of the girl do not meet your expectations of traditional female interests, do not hurry to write down her in ranks of strange ladies. Try to find out more about her preferences – if at the same time she is confused and lose control over the conversation course, so you precisely are pleasant to it. A mistake will consider usual flirtation from the girl sign of sympathy for you, she can flirt friendly, without wishing to offend you sharp refusal. However, it is quite possible that she really coquets with you for the sake of acquaintance continuation. Try to estimate the chances not by means of logic, and intuitively.
Movements and behavior
The girl who likes the guy will try to touch him as often as possible, masking it under quite ordinary gestures. To correct a sweater collar, to give a glass, having touched fingers, to touch with a knee under a table, to take away hair from eyes – if the girl behaves in this way and is confused at the same time, you precisely to it are very nice.
Always try to reciprocate to the girl interesting you that she felt more surely and showed further sympathy.
Attentively you look in her opinion. If the girl takes away it or, on the contrary, looks you fool in the face, it can speak about her interest in you. However there are nuances: in the first case she is quite self-assured and will take the first step soon. The second case speaks about her uncertainty and expectation of the first step of you. If it really is pleasant to you, do not keep the lady waiting. And, at last, the girl's attitude towards itself can be defined at will to draw to itself your attention. Ways to make it at girls a huge number, but almost always they symbolize only one – "You are pleasant to me and I want to be pleasant to you".