Not all relations lead to happy and long family life. Partings — the frequent phenomenon, and often the reason for that appears the banal reason: one of couple is just bothered by the relations. But not always the man is ready to report about it directly therefore it is important to be able to distinguish such situation. And to be able to distinguish it from temporary difficulties.
1. Sharp change of behavior of the man can arouse the first doubts. Attentive and sensitive earlier, he suddenly ceases to show an affection, calls less often and writes. Here it is important to overcome itself and not to begin to keep ringing to him. If his behavior so considerably changed, the excessive persistence will only even more aggravate a situation. Try to understand better in what there can be a reason of such cooling.
2. For a start try to understand whether on the business the attention of the man weakened. Perhaps, your inquiries increased, and the man behaves still attentively, as before? Perhaps, already at this stage the far-fetched problem will be solved.
3. Analyze events of the last days. Whether there was between you no quarrel, let even the most insignificant? Remember, maybe, you told it something like that that it seems to you an innocent joke, and its advantage could touch. What strong men would not try to seem, they sometimes are very sensitive. If you remembered such situation, consider what half-affairs is made. Now try to improve the relations, you know in what the dissonance reason.
4. If the offense is improbable, remember how the way of life of your beloved changed. Perhaps, it had new hobbies or work in this connection it temporarily "pushed" you into the background. If the reason and really in it, have with the man a heart-to-heart talk, tell that to you it is heavy and you want too that paid you attention. Then the problem can be solved.
5. But if you already again are refused from an appointment if the man at a meeting has a good time toys in phone instead of communicating with you is an occasion to suspect that he lost to you interest.
6. One more sign of lack of interest — the increased irritability of the guy. Pay attention to how it reacts to your actions. The grown cold man often begins to criticize literally any trifle, to carp at behavior which to it was earlier to liking.
7. Also will tell refusal of romantic evening with intimate continuation that you bothered it. The man can say that he is terribly busy, but you will be able easily to distinguish insincerity of his justifications, especially in case it repeats already not the first time. Or it can accept the offer, but in a bed will be cold. Try to make to it a surprise, to somehow diversify sexual life. If the number of appointments does not increase, and the coldness will only progress, then a conclusion will be unambiguous — he was tired of these relations.