Whether two persons will be able to be happy together - it depends not only on their feelings and desires. There is very important concept – compatibility. If people do not suit one another, then they will constantly irritate and irritate each other. Such rejection is capable to destroy even the most ardent feelings.
Instruction
1. The incompatibility is expressed in different temperaments, life biorhythms, habits, tastes, outlooks on life, in views. Such discrepancy can madly irritate: you experience strong emotions – he is quiet, you want to go to have a good time – he is already going to sleep, you trust in something – and he considers that you are not right, and does not support your opinion. Even the trifles repeating day by day can enrage any.
2. If you are very similar in everything – it is bad too. In the relations always there has to be a certain novelty. It is unlikely your partner looks for the double. Darling has to be the independent integral personality capable to intrigue the partner, but not the copy. It is impossible to fall in love with own reflection really. Unfortunately, at the beginning of the relations the similarity of thoughts and characters can seem very pleasant and convenient, but everything will place life on the places.
3. The best option if you have something the general, but at the same time you are rather different people. In that case you will supplement each other. It will be interesting to you together, there will always be curious things for discussion, an opportunity to share something.
4. In the relations sex is very important. If you are absolutely sexually not compatible, then you will have on this soil unsolvable problems which will lead to parting. But you do not hurry, you can take simple inexperience for incompatibility. The first time seldom is successful as you did not study each other yet and worry. Try to explain to the partner what is pleasant to you and that is not present, and the situation will improve at once. The loving person always tries to make pleasant to the half so do not despair. The main thing, do not offend and do not humiliate it, otherwise there will be complexes against which it is very difficult to win.
5. Anyway, if something does not develop, do not forget that in any relations it is necessary to make concessions and compromises. Difficulties always arise as people are not ideal. The main thing - will cope with them.