In some respects there can be a feeling that feelings left. But sometimes this wrong opinion also actually is just small recession. There are some signs which show problems in the relations and if you find itself several points, maybe, has at once no love any more.
Signs that you have no love for the person
The feeling of loneliness pursues you constantly. Even if you talk to the partner or are engaged in something together, you feel loneliness. If he is late or leaves on a visit, you do not miss and do not notice its absence in any way.
In your talk there is no that spark and sincere interest which was at the beginning. You do not worry because of its problems, do not rejoice to udacha, and just wait for the turn to tell a story.
You try to spend more time separately. After work you do not hurry home, with pleasure accept the invitation of girlfriends to go to walk, and load all free time courses or circles. Even being in one room you try to avoid communication – study information in phone, read or in a different way avoid the partner. There are thoughts of treason and other relations. You with interest see off beautiful figures, look for communication with an opposite sex and you flirt with especially attractive acquaintances. At the same time you at all not against if communication comes much further flirtation and will pass into the full-fledged relations. The slightest shortcomings of your partner begin to irritate you. Even if earlier it touched, now you cannot take out his behavior. Not washed mug turns into scandal and if it does not execute your assignment, you begin to pack things to mother. And how many unexpressed claims you carry in yourself, at the same time perfectly understanding their insignificance. You are irritated by touches and intimate proximity with this person. You try to postpone it the next day, for the next week or month. You sit up late that he already fell asleep, and slip out a bed before its awakening in the morning. Kisses if is, become mechanical action, unconscious and emotions.
What to do in this situation?
For a start you do not hurry to make quick decisions. Observe the relations some time, at least few weeks. So you will be sure that it is not just recession or your bad mood. Do not estimate your relations when you are in a strong quarrel, you cannot objectively assess a situation. If it is painful to you to realize that the relations come to an end, try to reanimate them. Talk to the partner, learn his opinion in this respect, discuss key problems. If independently to cope with a situation at you it will not turn out, address the family psychologist. He will be able to estimate your relations from outside and will help to return former feelings.