Perhaps, it is easier to foresee behavior of the man, than the woman's acts. However a strong half of mankind too quite often resorts to the tricks designed to hide the true feelings in communication with ladies. If you are not ready to remain in ignorance and want to learn the true relation of the man after several meetings, the attentiveness and observation will be necessary for you.
Instruction
1. The first stage of origin of the serious relations – sympathy. It is pleasant to each woman to realize that she is pleasant to the new acquaintance. If the man often calls, looks for a pretext for a meeting, seeks to remain with you alone, then you, at least, are interesting to it. Going to an appointment, pay attention as your satellite at personal contact behaves. The man to whom you are pleasant will listen carefully to you even if you not too skillful story-teller. It is known that the stronger sex is visual. Therefore lingering delighted looks which are sent only to your party should not confuse you.
2. So, the relations develop, and there comes the moment when the proposal just about has to sound. You will wait for this offer or not, it is possible to guess on behavior of your beloved. The man with serious intentions will surely acquaint you with the friends and parents. His love for you is also shown by frequent phone calls, readiness to spend with you all free time. If it is required, the admirer in love is ready to offer for the sake of you things, important for it (meeting with friends, a favourite hobby).
3. If all above-mentioned in behavior of the man there is no occasion to think of his lightness in relation to you. On the fact that you for it – only fleeting hobby specify some moments of behavior. For example, the light-headed gentleman can postpone or reschedule not once a meeting with you, thinking out, sometimes, not too reliable explanations. Believe, problems of friends are not so important for the man in love as an opportunity to stay near the woman dear to it. Therefore such illogical and optional behavior can have no other justifications, except the frivolous attitude towards you.
4. Other obvious sign that the man does not value you at all, - special attention to an opposite sex despite your presence. If he does not hesitate, being near you, to examine other women, openly tells you about the former girlfriends and, especially, compares you to them, then, except the underestimated self-assessment, such relations will bring nothing to you.
5. Unfavourable conclusions arise also when the man shows absolute indifference to your problems, progress, attempts something with it to discuss or ask council. The gentleman with frivolous intentions simply does not like to listen to you. Most often, in such relations the man from you needs only sex. Think whether it is worth spending itself for the heartless lover, or long ago it is time to continue search of the gentle, attentive, careful husband.
6. Many women to the last try to save the relations doomed to a gap. But if the man has to you no serious feelings, hardly you will be able to hold for a long time him near yourself. Therefore take off pink glasses and try to be trained morally for parting if your gentleman calls you less frequently or ceases to answer your calls. He is more often busy for you? Prefers to spend time with friends instead of meeting you? Frankly stares at other girls? Your affirmative answer at least to one of these questions – obvious proofs of hopelessness of these relations.