Soul of other person - always darkness, to whatever relatives it was. Never definitely you learn that at it on mind. Loves - does not love, respects - despises, there is another - there is no other. As it would be good to be able to read others mind! But such ability allocated not all. It is necessary to think out other holes.
Instruction
1. Begin with the simplest. Because even in such complex affairs as others thoughts and intentions, there is always all the known and lovely option - it is simple to ask. Make a nice face, nestle on it a cheek when he thinks and ask a question: ""Darling, and what you think of?"", having specially put emphasis on public ""At"" in the last word. If the person sincerely loves you, such lovely curiosity of darling will not cause in it irritation. But if you need to learn what he thinks of, then probably you doubt its feelings...
2. Try to track its mimicry. The look is frequent, gestures, tone of a voice give much more, than directly words. Of course, to draw some conclusions, having only looked at a favourite face, it is necessary to be the shrewd psychologist, and it is better - the psychologist diplomaed. But quite in your forces to look on the Internet at materials on this subject, to read books. Especially pay attention to the words ""nonverbal behavior"" and ""language of mimicries/gestures"". Such grants will help you not only better to understand darling, but also other people that, you see, too is important.
3. Try to observe how he sleeps also. Often movements which we make in a dream words which we tell, besides, a mimicry give our secret desires. Pay attention: if darling with you is irritable and rude, and has dreams pleasant (judging by a blissful smile), then came it is time to attend to the fate of your relations. If in a dream he sees other girl instead of you, or you, but in slightly other image, then, having woken up, thinks of the same even if he tries to send the thoughts to other course somehow consciously.
4. Try - only carefully - to ask his friends that he thinks in any given occasion. Perhaps, without revealing for any reason before you, he willingly talks on these subjects to the best friends. It will be especially good if you with him have one good friend who with identical trust treats both you, and it and who worries for the fate of your relations. Such friend can help you not only learn about thoughts of your young man, but also in general, in principle it is better to understand him.
5. And at last: before reading others mind and to climb in others soul, track better yourself and the thoughts. Perhaps they just do not coincide with moods of your young man. Then it is better to ask him what he wants, but there is nothing he thinks. After all, both he, and you all the same should change sometime to keep the relations. It is better to make it earlier, and then your thoughts will coincide and to coincide long.