If you suspect the darling of treachery, it is desirable to confirm or disprove the guesses as soon as possible. In this article it will be a question of how to understand that your soul mate meets someone else. Advice of psychologists will help to understand difficult relations.
Whether everything girls are capable of treachery?
In psychology several categories of the girls more often changing to the men are distinguished:
- Young young ladies. Experience of the relations only with one guy, and at cohabitation, both the bored life and boring sex — all this pushes the girl to search of entertainments on the party.
- Romantic natures. Having considered in the new acquaintance of the hero of the novel, the favourite actor or the musician, such girls immediately fall to them into arms.
- Having convicted the guy of treason, the proud girl does not declare break in relations, and itself has a ball.
- The hyperactivity is peculiar to such girls since the birth. At adult age for satisfaction of the requirements they usually need several partners.
Why there is a thought of incorrectness?
Persuasive fears and doubts make the life miserable of the male jealous man and force it to arrange to the soul mate cross-questioning. The arising thoughts of incorrectness can be reasonable, but can not have under themselves any reasons. Fear of treason is quite justified when the partner shows extremely defiant behavior. For example, openly flirts with other guys in the presence of the elect.
Important! Women have male fellow. Therefore you do not look sideways at it if she embraced the acquaintance at an unexpected meeting.
The low self-assessment of the guy, disbelief in own importance in life of the companion can be the cause of unjustified fear of treachery. If the girl does not give open reasons for jealousy, but the man is all the same tormented by doubts, perhaps he was changed in the last relations, and he developed mistrust to all women. The girl in this situation suffers not less, than her hypochondriac boyfriend.
How to recognize by behavior that the girl changed you
In search of answers to the questions the guys in love sometimes address tests and even to folk remedies. The following circumstances or signs in behavior really have to guard.
She began to watch the appearance more carefully
It is worth thinking if the girl buys to herself many new things and finds unjustified amount of time for the appearance, and earlier behind her similar was not noticed. At the same time together you occasionally get out to places where it would be worth dressing up. Then that she wishes to make an impression on someone another who to it is nice.
Strange calls and messages on phone
The behavior of your darling when it is closed in other room can demonstrate treason to speak by phone. Or when it dumps calls to call back in your absence. The same happens also to messages. Check of its incoming calls and SMS is a chance to find out about the truth, but such way breaks confidentiality of the person.
It will be interesting to you to learn how to forgive treason.
It switches off the phone
For the purpose of prevention of unforeseen calls and SMS, your partner can switch off the means of communication. It is possible to check her the following maneuver: tell that forgot where put the smartphone, and let she will call you. If she becomes puzzled and will begin to justify itself, it is worth pricking up the ears.
It has a weak desire to proximity with you
If problems in a bed began for not clear reasons for you, it is possible that it found someone on the party. Having fallen in love with another, it simply began to move away from you. The refusal of proximity can be dictated also by a remorse for the relations along with two men. Thus, you are superfluous in this love triangle.
She pays you special attention
It could change once under the influence of emotions then it developed sense of guilt. A remorse instinctively forces the woman to do things, uncharacteristic for her. For example, to praise the blessed, to call him by gentle words and so on.
Important! Existence of one of above-mentioned main signs cannot be considered as the proof of treason. Consider all points in a complex.
She is late at work or study
To hide time spent with your rival it systematically "vanishes" at work, assuring that it is strongly loaded by affairs. With study the situation consists the same way: she explains late return from educational institution with participation in various actions, need of preparation course in library and other pretexts.
Whether how to learn at distance the girl changes
To define whether the soul mate at distance makes you "horned", it is possible only on the nature of communication with you:
- whether keeps up phone call with you or looks for any occasion to finish it;
- whether finds minute to answer your SMS and messages in social networks or refers to the mad employment.
What to do if there are suspicions of treason
If you have strong reasons to doubt devotion beloved, you should not postpone a direct conversation. On the contrary, it is desirable to be prepared for it in advance at the crucial moment to be quiet and sure. Tell the girl about the fears, explain the reason of their emergence.
Whether you know? For the reasons unclear hitherto, the lightning strikes men six times more often than women.
At the same time it is impossible to go for scandal, blackmail, threat of suicide or punishment over the opponent. Considering that it is about the found couple, but not about the spouses attached by children and other obligations, at confirmation of the fact of treason the break in relations will be the most reasonable exit. If she once betrayed you, it is impossible to exclude that similar will not repeat and further. Certainly, if you are sure that you found love of all life and want to remain with this young lady as long as possible, that is sense to forgive her. Perhaps, she is oppressed by own act, or its treason was invented and aimed to cause in you feeling of jealousy. Anyway try to find out motive of its actions. If she regrets, and you had mutual feelings, it is worth trying to improve the relations.