Choosing the companion of life, there is a wish to know for certain what wife it will become as there will be your relations in marriage what "surprises" pleasant and not too, it is possible to expect from it as the legal wife.
1. Unfortunately, it is impossible to tell for certain what will turn out the wife from the girl - too many factors affect "end result". It depends not only on character of your darling, her vital aspirations and ability to build relationship with the partner, but also from events which will fill your family life, from the level of material welfare and from as far as your union will be harmonious.
2. But nevertheless it is possible to draw some preliminary conclusions. It is only worth studying more attentively the girl, to understand what she the person and what influenced her formation as persons.
3. The first what it is worth looking narrowly at, it relationship in parental family of the girl. It is known that character, habits, vital values and ideas of norms of family way are formed at the person in the childhood. Visit at her home, communicate to parents, estimate a situation in parental family of your darling. Probability that it will already embody this model of family relationship in the family life is high.
4. Get acquainted with mother of your girl. There is an opinion that, having matured, daughters become in many respects similar to the mothers - and externally, and on character. Of course, the exact copy of mother the girl will not become, but any lines, certainly, will adopt, for the girl during formation of the personality mother is an example of female behavior model including in family.
5. Of course, there are cases when someone has a greater influence on the girl of other of female relatives, for example, the grandmother. It is worth finding out these moments and to get acquainted whenever possible with the person who is so significant for your darling or at least to learn about him as much as possible.
6. Sometimes, that the girl, growing in family not too safe, authoritative or burdened other sort problems, begins to build the family life "by contradiction", i.e. chooses such model of family and the line of conduct in it which is contrast to all that she had to see and endure in the childhood. Ask the girl how was to her in family when it was small that was pleasant and that, perhaps, caused rejection – and you receive a picture of ideal ideas of your darling of family life and a role of the woman in it.
7. Study character of the beloved. If she is kind and careful with you during your meetings, is interested in your affairs, seeks to render the feasible help – the probability of that is high, as in family life she will show these qualities. If the girl is sharp, ambitious or derisive – from her and further you should not expect excessive softness, complaisance and tenderness.
8. And, of course, in the best way to get an idea of how the girl will behave in marriage - it is to live with her together. Meetings and appointments are one, and joint life day by day – absolutely another. Being constantly in one territory, it is almost impossible to hide from each other the habits, traits of character and features of reaction in any given everyday situations. If you are not ready to conduct the general economy yet and to look for joint housing, can just spend a vacation with the girl. By the way, the conditions of your accommodation will be less comfortable, the traits of character of your darling interesting you will be shown more brightly: it is known that extreme circumstances promote it.